We were walking and they reached for my hand it was cute and sweet until i realized my hand was literally a puddle
they didn’t say anything but i know they felt it
should i laugh it off next time or just act like it never happened?
We held hands for the first time and my hand started sweating like crazy do i bring it up or pretend it didn’t happen?
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Dunk the hand in a bucket of water next time, lean into it. Make them question their sanity. Like, if the hand is this wet now, was it even wet last time?
Next time they go for your hand just say “Hey, I really like holding your hand but I know I sweat a lot. Does that bother you?”
You can also bring up alternatives. The first date I went on with my ex, she wrapped her hand around my arm. No one has ever done that to me before and it made me feel like I was strong and that she felt safe with me. It was actually really nice.