Hi, I [27F] was sitting on couch in bad pose, was wearing short skirt, in that pose my butt was showing, I never thought that i was sitting that way, i was not giving attention to that, because i was on my phone, there was several boys in that room, including my boyfriend[33M] who texted me to correct my pose, I immediately corrected. But he said that i am seeking attention and how i can’t control myself, i said that in was unintentional and everybody can make mistakes, i was not giving attention to my sitting pose, because of my phone. I understand what made him angry, i should control that more, but saying and not believing that it wasn’t intentional, hurts me so much. After that he said he felt very disrespected and he should think about this relationship.
If it was your relationship, what would you think about your girlfriend/boyfriend in similar situation?
P.s we are together for 1 year and 3 months.
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If my boyfriend said that I’d end it with him. If he can’t understand a mistake or take me at my word, there’s no trust or respect. You want to be with someone who doesn’t trust or respect you?
I couldn’t be with someone who didn’t trust my words.
It’s good you ask. Just be mindful. And be reserved if you want it to work with him. It’s so gross and scary now. Nothing is sacred. And boys will flock to that kind of stuff. From a male who just wants his girl to have fun. Just be calm when you tell him and reassuring. coming from a male. I see his worry and insecurity. Once you imbed in his mind you are only for him. And only if he is truly the one. He will be proud that men flock to you. Just don’t let vanity become a thing.