I am 20 years old, I don’t know who will read this, but I feel very stuck, I didn’t finish high school and I still plan to do so and be able to enter university, I have a girlfriend who is living in a city alone, she works as a cashier in a store and her boss doesn’t treat her badly, but she is not comfortable because of many angry people and men who (harass) her so to speak, not in a rough way but they are very annoying people and she is angry about it, I don’t have money and I work with the salary At the very least, I would like to get a job and earn enough to support her, she recently took exams for the university in my city and is waiting for a response, but even so if she is accepted she will have to rent and pay for her university and it will be somewhat complicated, I would really like to help her, I would like to stand out, so to speak soon and in some way be able to support her, she is a very strong, brave person and that is why I admire her so much, I love her a lot, I am very desperate, I keep thinking about what to do to earn more, I don’t know what business I could do, I’m very stupid and I’m honestly embarrassed and I think it’s something bad about me, maybe no one reads this, but I’m just expressing myself and if I get some advice or something, it would be incredible, I’m not good at expressing myself but I try to do it, I’ll keep thinking about what I could do, but I really would like to support her and I hope very soon to be able to do it, I also don’t want you to think that I only think about supporting her and not about myself, of course I do, but she has it much more complicated than me, I already told her to talk to her parents so that she can go with them in what she gets a response from the university and if she spoke to them tomorrow, I hope and if they support her, they are not bad people either but they have a somewhat complicated relationship.
I don’t know what to do, I feel stuck
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You’re not stupid you are just overwhelmed and trying to do right by someone you care about. Start by focusing on finishing school and look for any small jobs or side gigs to get some income. If you want to support her long term the best thing you can do is to work on building yourself up first
I feel you are overwhelm because there is so much things you want to do right now for your loved ones, It is a valid reaction.
Take a deep breathe, write in piece of paper and sort the issue accordingly. Forget about what if. Just laid all the problem down. Solve what is most crucial and lay out plan. Discuss with her then.
Honestly, that’s pretty rough. All I can think of is I hope everything gets better for you bud. Wish you the best.