To start this off, I completely support my(29m) partner(27f) with her decisions when she is trying to make a positive change in her life. She has recently found faith in God/the Catholic Church and it’s been really amazing for her. Her perspective on life and the way she deals with everyday problems has become truly admirable. With her new found faith, she has decided that it’s important for her to no longer have sex until marriage. We have been together two years and had a very healthy sex life until 3 months ago when she put it to an abrupt end. Since then, there has been absolutely nothing sexual between us. No passionate kissing, no touching, no nothing. At first I thought she had just lost interest in me, however it was very quickly cleared up that it wasn’t the case.(we are very open with each other and communicate well). I’m trying my best to stay positive and support her, but I find it more and more difficult. I want to be sexual with her, and share those intimate moments with her. And at the root of it all, I feel as though she made a decision that affects both of us without taking into consideration how it may affect me. I don’t whine about it, or make her feel wrong because it’s my job to support her unconditionally. I just don’t know what to do. Is it a decision that we should have discussed together?
TL:DR
My(29m) partner(27f) decided that we aren’t having sex anymore because she wants to follow the path of god. Although I support her with anything she feels is best for her, I also feel like I should have been considered more and I’m not sure how to handle it.