UPDATE: My (26f) ex-boyfriend (29m) sent me a delirious text out of the blue and it’s making me feel paranoid?

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Link to the OG post: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/s/Jxsi2MOJAz

TL,DR for my previous post: After cheating on me with a co-worker and being dumped by me, my ex went on to start a relationship with this woman. A couple weeks ago he sent me a weird text blaming me for being unhappy with her and I was afraid he would spiral.

Well, thankfully it didn’t happen. I did not unblock him and he did not attempt to contact me in any other way either.

However a friend with whom I shared my anxieties told me recently that she saw him with another girl that wasn’t the colleague, so either he is cheating on her too or they broke up. Either way, Idgaf. I’m just glad he’s moved his attentions elsewhere. Thanks for the advice on my first post ♥️

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