My fiance and I have been together for two years and some months. We have a good relationship and he is not out there. He goes to work, home, has his friend, goes to sport and prioritises me.
Two years ago we went to a party at his friends house. There was this girl, she greeted him warmly, not me until I went to her to say hello as I thought it was sus. He spent afternoon, evening and night mostly by my side, he only danced with me. Later I saw them talking, some time after me and my fiance left.
Later he told me he had said she had said ‘dance with me, or i’ll be angry’, he said ‘later’ and then left with me. I am dissapointed he don’t have more clear boundaries eventhough he didn’t dance with her.
Before they had been friends/on the talking stage but never more.
They don’t follow each other on SoMe but he has her number/whatsapp, I also think her chat but they didn’t chat or he blocked her because she posted so much I don’t remember because I didn’t pay much attention to her at that time.
I saw he sent a msg to her to invite her to our engagement party, she said I will come and after on the day she said she wasn’t able to. My fiance’s other friend said she was feeling bad my fiance got engaged.
Since when we have seen her at a party 1-2 times they don’t even greet.
Now I saw on his snapchat (he put my face is on his phone) that there has been a msg og messages between him and her profile (it is like it is a second or new profile for her as she only has 9 as her snapscore) recently. I can’t see any content what was sent or not sent, maybe it was just adding like friends, maybe they sent a message, maybe pictures I have no idea.
But it doesn’t sit right with me she didn’t respect me when she saw us together the first time, she felt too bad about our engagement and they don’t even greet but now she is on snapchat.
Honestly I freaked a bit and deleted her on snapchat and her number. But can and what can I say/do? Maybe it is nothing, maybe it is something.
Tl;dr: i saw a girl i know ly man has talked with before on his snapchat. I deleted her. I still don’t feel good and he hadnt mentionend it yet even though i have seen i added myself. What to do?