Say you’ve been in a relationship with your girlfriend for about 1.5 years. Everything else has been great—emotional connection, communication, shared values, etc.
But here’s the thing: we haven’t had sex at all—not once. Am I being taken for a fool or being used??? We’ve had conversations about it, and I’ve expressed how the lack of physical intimacy has been affecting me. She’s acknowledged it, but nothing has really changed.
At what point does this become too much? How long would you stay in a relationship without sex—especially when it’s something you’ve been clear about needing? Just wondering how others would handle this or if anyone’s been in a similar situation.