Am i 18F evil for treating my 18M boyf , the exact same way he has been treating me?

I am 18F with a 18M boyfriend, we have been dating for 2years , and we still get into a lot of fights which we end up solving. But since the last few months i have been feeling really unloved , like there is a lack of love .
My boyfriend doesn’t really calls me anymore, or give me flowers or anything for that matter , never once planned a date or gave a surprise just because he loved me , and before it didn’t bother me as i had different thoughts about relationship and he was 15 so i didn’t expect a 15year old to take me on dates (he is 5months younger than me) , but as i am growing up , i want to feel pampered and maybe a few roses or compliments out of nowhere sounds nice . But he doesn’t get it , i have tried multiple times explaining him about my wants and needs , but he just nods along and never work on it and we have had 2-3 massive arguments over it , and he says i have anger issues, instead of working on things he promised he would.

But last week i have a really bad breakdown , i cried like crazy on the call with him , telling him this isn’t going to work and “i can’t play these dumb relationship tactics, i love deeply and you aren’t mature enough for that” and i think that did something to him , or idk because he started calling more , but last night i slept early and didn’t pick his calls and today i had puja (ekadasi it’s a hindu fast where you don’t eat or drink ). But he still called me angrily and said pretty mean stuff , like “how selfish i am and how i only take revenge because this is exactly how he used to treat me ” and here i am confused about few things first “i literally didn’t do anything, was just simply occupied, second i can’t fight or argue today as i literally cant drink water or eat and i don’t have the energy or mood to do so , third if this is how you treated me in the past , then maybe held your accountable first ??

But instead of creating a scene , i simply told him “you can think whatever you want , i don’t wish to argue more” and he somehow got more pissed at that and said some more stuff and left , tbh i don’t feel sab anymore or bad , there is this loneliness lingering but it’s alright ig .

Should I call him? And sort it out?

And thank-you for reading this long ass passage 😭

td;lr
I’ve been with my 18M boyfriend for 2 years. Lately, i feel unloved and emotionally neglected. Despite telling him your needs, he doesn’t change and instead blames you. After a big breakdown, he started trying a bit, but got mad when you missed his call during a religious fast. Now i feel emotionally drained and unsure if i should call him to fix things.