Does anyone else struggle with a partner that is always making stupid sexual jokes and comments? Tonight I got home from having a massage after a long day of work. I am 8 days into quitting smoking, so a bit on edge and I haven’t even set my bag down yet, I asked him how his day is and he responds with; is it me or is your ass exceptionally juicy today? Like wtf?!? Honestly, I am so tired of it. He couldn’t even ask to see how I was feeling, ask about my day, nothing. Just straight to an ass comment. I have told him I don’t think it’s funny and it doesn’t turn me on, in fact it does the opposite. He gets pissed off and tells me to lighten up. I am just so sick of it.
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Yeah that sucks he doesn’t know how to read the room when appropriate. In my experience, sometimes my wife will complain I’m not sexualizing her enough, other times it’s too much! Over time I’m learning when it’s the right time and wrong time. Can be confusing though
personally, I love it, but you should just tell him honestly that after a long day, you would like if he tries to connect with you first before moving into sexual remarks.
I used to. Got rid of it.
If you’ve told him multiple times and his response is getting pissed off and telling you to “lighten up” then this just isn’t worth it, just shows he has no intent to even try to see things from your side.