Hi I’m Jeremey, I’m a male and I’m 19. I’ve had 1 relationship in highschool, and since then I’ve made efforts to move on. I visited a Transgender dating website and a regular Aussie dating website recently. I told one girl and another woman that I wanted a relationship. I’m not certain what to say.

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I care about both of them and I told both of them I love them. I don’t want to hurt either of them and I’m not certain if I should have a relationship.
Their names are Deia and Mia.

I did want a relationship when I was talking with them.
My ex-girlfriend and I broke up last year on good terms and I needed and wanted to move on. I still have slight feelings for her and I could potentially have greater feelings for Deia and Mia. I don’t want to cause them relationship stress.

TL;DR
Broken up with ex-girlfriend on good terms, I still have slight feelings for her.
I could potentially have feelings for a girl I met on a Transgender dating website, Deia.
I could potentially have feelings for a woman I met on an Aussie dating website, Mia.
I’m not certain if I should have a relationship, I don’t want to cause them relationship stress.

I need advice and general thoughts.
Comment below your thoughts.

Comments

  1. anatol-hansen Avatar

    Just don’t have a relationship then. You told them both you love them and want a relationship with them. (Within the same period of time?)

    That’s very silly. It’s fine to be dating and seeing if there’s a connection. But you don’t make two connections and tell them both you love them.

    Focus on education and hobbies then redownload a dating app when you’re in a better mental place. A relationship won’t fix your problems, that’s your job.

    Take care g!