My BF (20M) and I (F20) have been dating for 9 months, but we did break up when we were 18 (we dated for 2 yrs) before we broke up and trying again as adults now. We are in an LDR but he already came to my country last Feb and is coming home again in November this year.
I am having mixed feelings because my boyfriend told me that “you don’t even know what I feel lately” I said it’s because he doesn’t tell me he responded that I’ll just say I don’t know what to do or say. I asked him “how does he know that” and he just slept on me and left me on delivered.
I think it’s not for me to fix his problems but at the same time I feel hurt because it seems like he doesn’t confide in me as his girlfriend. Lately I’ve been noticing him being more distant and only having shallow conversations but we don’t fight or argue. It’s only now that he suddenly brought it up because I was sulking that he missed my calls 3 times (all maximum rings before it missed) I was really just want affection when I was sulking but that was the response I received.
How should I go on about this with him?
TLDR: wanted affection but I’m seriously hurt about what my bf told me