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NeedleworkerDue8615

So this started around 12 years ago. I was in bed and I get this text from golden child sister that her latest boyfriend is moving in with them. This isn’t the first time my stupid nparents allowed her boyfriends to live with them. But what gets me about this one is they pushed me out at the time to let this loser move in. He has at least 3-4 baby moms and barely works. I told gc not to talk to me again. I was pissed. So some time passes and I’m still not talking to nparents but talked to gc very lightly until ndad passes away. Gc tried to guilt trip me not being there when he was dying. I got beaten almost every night when ndad got drunk. Nmom’s way of thinking is I shouldn’t have abandoned the family despite the abuse. Now she’s erasing my whole existence posting nothing but gc wedding day to this loser guy and their kid. My grandson this and my grandson that… my daughter this my daughter that… totally forgetting that she has a first born. She put the house in her and gc name after ndad passed. Has anyone else gotten their lives erased like this? I’ve been no contact for twelve years with nparents bc I couldn’t take the bullshit any longer.

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