I can’t understand why he’s behaving like this.
For context, I’m 9 months pregnant and any day now the baby will come. I’ve also been VERY emotional lately
Last night we were watching random YouTube videos and this lady left her kids in the car and got arrested in front of her children and I started getting so uncomfortable and felt the tears coming on. The kids had started crying shouting mommy, mommy and it just… Set me off. Tbh just thinking about the kids as I’m typing this is setting me off again lol
I told him, I can’t watch this anymore can you turn it off?
And he immediately shouted at me, OKAY! WHAT THE FUCK and I was like, I just asked you to turn it off! And he yelled at me more saying, I fucking heard you oh my fucking God, THERE. It’s turned OFF. SHUT THE FUCK UP!
At that point I stood up and shouted back that he has no right to disrespect me and why would he yell at me for this I didn’t say anything wrong to him and he says, just shut the fuck up and go away.
As I started walking away I heard him call me a “fucking wh*re”
So I went to our bedroom and started putting the laundry away (I tend to angry clean lol)
I didn’t speak to him the rest of the night and just went to bed and this morning we didn’t talk either until he put his arms around me and said, good morning.
Like, excuse me…. He shouted at me, and called me a vulgar name and then…. What? Expects me to forget about it? How about an APOLOGY. WHO TALKS TO THEIR OWN WIFE LIKE THIS.
And I want to say, I didn’t swear at him or call him names. I never call him names but he seems to be comfortable calling me names when he’s angry. All because I asked him to turn off a video that was upsetting me.
Tldr: my husband blew up at me over pretty much NOTHING, called me names and I don’t understand why he froze me out when he’s the one who called me a wh*re!!!
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I’m so sorry he treated you this way, no advice just support
Has he ever done anything like this before? This behavior is definitely NOT okay, but if this is a pattern, it should be handled differently than if he had a hugely inappropriate stress reaction to things that he’s been experiencing in the lead up to the new baby.
You definitely should ask for an apology.
It’s a signal of a abusive man, I’m Sorry. I was in your situation and he is the father of my 2 children. I tried to change him by any means, the only thing that actually worked was a energetic work for love that I did with a Brazilian spiritual guide.