Me, 24F and my bf 28M have been dating for about 3 months now and tbh it’s turning out to be exhausting.
He is someone who is agitated by the smallest of things i don’t do his way. Like, he has shifted from our hometown to another city for work and i do care for him a lot so, i said , if you ever want me to order something, tell me.
However, till now, he never asked me and i kept asking if he required something and he kept denying it. Yesterday we had a huge fight which continued till today and he came back from office and he told me order something for me and I said i won’t since i was really mad at him.
He started sayjng things like if you didnt wanna order, why did you tell me and I apologised but offered to order then and apologised for my behaviour.
This was just an instance. I am someone who doesn’t get bothered or can let things like these easily slide but he can’t and it’s starting to bother me a lot. On one end i do appreciate his sensitivity to smaller things but on other end I am like why cant he let things slide by easily.
If i am wrong, please explain it to me, since i wanna be better. Thank you
TL;DR : bf holds grudges for too long and can’t let things slide by easily
What should i do ?
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3 months in you shouldn’t really be having any major issues yet tbh but this does sound like something open communication, and some compromise from both of you should be able to fix.
Girl it’s been 3 months, please just drop him. He’s already showing vibrant red flags and making you question things, so why continue?
I think you should dump him. 3 months in there should be zero fights and no red flags.
>Me, 24F and my bf 28M have been dating for about 3 months now and tbh it’s turning out to be exhausting. […] it’s starting to bother me a lot.
And it’s only going to bother you more and more. He doesn’t sound like a good match for you. It has only been 3 months. This is a good time for you to put the “fail fast” marketing technique to work for you. Move on.