So i (20F) met this guy (22M) in 2021 in college. Didn’t really speak to him one on one or anything might of said a few words he seemed to keep to himself around me but spoke quite a bit with everyone else. He got my Snapchat off one of my friends not long after. He tends to message me and show interest and explicitly say he likes me and wants a relationship with him some day ect. I’m not a very active person on snap so for a few months ill be active and chat regularly then I’ll be off it for ages and reply whenever I have time which could be weeks at a time. He’s only been in 1 relationship since 2021 in between the time line of when he got my snap and now. Which they broke up nearly 2 years ago. He was very friendly during his relationship with this person no longer flirty or showing interest didnt chat that often but a few months after they had broken up he started talking to me more often and showing interest again and he remembers things I tell him and asks me how I am what I’m up too talks about us in the future and things like that. We get on really well both down to earth people if you get me. I’m just unsure if he genuinely likes me like he says and genuinely wants to be with me.
He sends flirty messages Kissy type of emojis Has a laugh with me Explicitly tells me he likes me, talks about dating me and wanting to be with me for years and things you do years down the line (having kids ect) He tells me I should open up about how I’m feeling and if I’m not doing so well tell him because going through it alone isn’t good for me (personal reason he knows it’s not good from experiences I’ve mentioned) He remembers my child’s name, her age, what days she’s in school, anything I mention about her he remembers it and me. He messages me whenever he can when he’s working Tells me about things going on in his life (I will stop here or I’ll keep going)
I just don’t know if he genuinely like likes me and I’m not getting played.
Just need some advice or things I could say to him without him knowing what I’m doing to know if he does like Me. Because if I am getting played asking him right out I’ll just get the answer I wanna here and I’ve been hurt enough in previous relationships so any help would be appreciated (TLDR)