Me ( 19F) and my boyfriend (19M ) have been together for about a year and i have been so i love with him and our relationship has been very strong even while i was travelling and not seeing him for months. for some reason when i got back it felt like something wasn’t there between us anymore and all the little things he did wrong were starting to bother me (he’s a very nonchalant person and doesn’t communicate or express himself well and i’m the opposite). he doesn’t compliment or defend me which upsets me.
about a month ago a i started a new job and a guy there ( 18M )started messaging me and we got on very well, as we messaged and worked together more i realised i really have feelings for him and he also does for me.
I genuinely love my boyfriend so much but i also really have feelings for this other guy. I have been fully open with both people in the situation but i’m just looking for advice and what should i break up with my boyfriend or stay with him?
TL;DR:
Although i love my boyfriend so much i also have a lot of feelings for a co-worker (which are reciprocated) and not sure who to pick or what to do.
Comments
Just dump your boyfriend. You’re already having an emotional affair from what you’ve said.