34F what does consistency look to you?

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There is this guy who l’ve known for years now but we never had anything serious. I’d see him maybe once a year. Recently he his me up telling me all this stuff and how he realized that if he’s going to be consistent he wants it to be with me. He said a bunch of other stuff.
Eventually I said ok fine be consistent then. Basically saying proof to me if I should even look your way. He started texting me everyday July 13. Then I noticed the 20th I didn’t hear from him. 21 he text me. 22 text me at
8pm. 23 text me 24 heard nothing from him. And today which is Friday text me. Idk if it’s just me but that doesn’t sound consistent to me. And it’s not like he gave me a reason for those days. I feel like he’s just trying to see what he can get away with. What do you guys think??

TL;DR -idk what this means but here it is.

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  1. N3rdScool Avatar

    What does a relationship look like to you?

    It’s a two way street so I mean both of you need to put in work. If you feel like you’re putting in more and not getting what you want then that’s a problem.

    The goal to me is to find someone who wants you around all the time… hopefully naked some of those times XD