I (F28) am currently in a ‘situationship’ type thing but that’s kind of irrelevant to my question. I have been in 6 ‘long term’ relationships and I have 2 children from different partners. I am attractive apparently and I am told this a lot. I do feel like I am beautiful but I do hold a lot of baggage. My question is, do men go all in with a woman because they think they are gorgeous and become infatuated and then after time come to realise, wow I’m taking on a lot here (my kids have addition needs) or anything similar?
I have personally given up on relationship but I’m curious if this is a thing. All of my relationships have started off amazingly and passionately and then when ‘reality’ hits they start to panic and things start to go downhill. Please tell me your experiences/opinions on this as this is what’s happened to me. I’m a really good girlfriend but I do come with a lot.
TDLR; Do men go for hot girls on a whim and then re-evaluate after and get scared?