Today:
My husband and I are 30 and 31. We’ve been five years married both. I’m not sure how to feel about it. I went on his Reddit account today and found he followed this girl from OF. I mean I get its pics posted of half naked pics of boobs and what not of this 24 or 27 year old female. It’s basically porn but like following that page when we barely have sex once a week or once every two weeks.
TL;DR:
How do I go forward this? Like I feel hurt and mad. I don’t want to create an argument over this but I just feel idek how to explain or what to do. Like should I be mad because he doesn’t ask me for nude photos or have sex with me often? It’s already hard enough asking for physical affection from him. He use to follow attractive girls on snap several years ago but he doesn’t have the app anymore. I just feel so confused emotionally but also hurt bc past issues when dating five years ago.
Comments
Almost every guy masturbates. I don’t think the fact that he does is strange. The bigger problem is your intimacy concerns generally. That is definitely worth a conversation or maybe counseling
If it’s genuinely ruining your connection and marriage go to r/loveafterporn