Hi i’m M 16 and my gf F 15 i need to know is it weird or insecurity to ask who is texting them?

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hey i need help with something about my relationship. i’m a M 16 and my gf 15 and i was wondering if it’s ok to ask my girlfriend who is texting them. Cause whenever we are on call i hear a message notification over the phone cause it’s loud and i can hear it while we are on call. And we were both quiet and not talking so my main thing i need to ask is. would it be weird or insecure if i ask who is texting them and why they are texting them cause this is my first relationship and i am all for wondering to much. But i dont want to feel the constant need to know who is texting them thank you for reading this i needed to get it off my chest.

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  3. ImaCulpA Avatar

    Just say; ohh what was that?

  4. DeMiko Avatar

    Are you asking because your curious or because your worried it’s other guys. The second one is not good and something you should try to work on. Jealousy is an ugly emotion and not learning to deal with it will eventually hurt you in relationships

  5. grippysockgang Avatar

    Dont assume the worst unless she has given you a solid reason to think she is being shady 🙂

  6. Ok_Orchid1004 Avatar

    Nunya. Nunya business.