Me (19m) and my girlfriend (20f) have been dating for 9 months. We adore and love eachother very much and care about eachother really deeply. We want to spend the rest of our lives together.
But there’s a problem. Basically she’s the extrovert of our relationship. She likes having friends, meeting new people, and socializing. I am introverted, and like to be alone. She really likes party, club, and rave culture and for some reason I can’t quite put my finger on it gives me a massive ick. Like her having friends and socializing doesn’t bother me, but hearing her talk about clubbing and partying just sets off all of my “red flag” alerts in my brain. It might be because I find those things irritating and have no entertainment value so I don’t get it, but i just can’t shake it.
This feeling was brought up again when she was scrolling tiktok and saw a "7 minutes in heaven" animation and explained what that game is. I felt uneasy. Maybe it's because I have an anxiety of her doing stupid shit under peer pressure idk. I don't know if I'm just being insecure or something because she's promised she's loyal, but idk. This has been really bothering me lately. What should I do about these feelings? I really want us to work out
TLDR: Introvert bf gets the ick when his extrovert gf talks about partying