I’m not saying he acts gay (as in mannerisms) but more so things that have happened throughout our 2 years relationship.
He said at the start he would be with a transsexual even if they had a penis (I know some views on this are different). I asked him if he would still be with me if I had a dick and he said yeah he would suck it. He had no problem being with someone who has a penis, we spoke a lot about that and he ended up retracting his statement/opinion and deemed this hypothetical was stupid – but why not just say no? And that you don’t/can’t be with someone with a penis?
He also was into muscle women, and liked a photo of a video game character (female with a dick attached).
His friend group does/says gay stuff like “I’ll suck you dry” etc and I’ve seen him in front of me touch his friends ass (more towards the middle of it). His friends also have sent their dicks to each other and have seen it but my bf never did himself. I know this stuff happen but I thought more middle/high school guys do this, not guys almost 30. He says it’s normal to do this but why? Why just not to gay actions or say gay things?
My dad cheated on my mom with a guy when I was younger and no one ever saw it coming. I’ve never had doubts of partners being gay before but when there’s signs I’m going to be hyper aware due to experience I guess.
TL;DR
Bf says he would be with trans and touches friends ass and friend group does gay stuff. I have doubts of straightness