I 22M want to ask 20F to be my gf. Hows my approach?

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So the basic idea is i give her a card saying this:
Name,
I love the way you smile and laugh.
I love getting lost in your beautiful, deep brown eyes.
I love every inch of you, the things you see as imperfections, I see as unique parts of you that no one else has.

You are the best thing that’s ever happened in my life.
Thank you for choosing me, again and again, despite everything we’ve been through.

So now, I’m asking…
Will you choose me again?

And then i ask her to be my gf and give her a bouquet of hand made flowers.

Tldr: Asking a girl out w a cute gesture

Comments

  1. Even_In_Arcadia2025 Avatar

    That seems over the top. How long have you been dating? Why not just ask her if she wants to continue in an exclusive relationship with you?

  2. ANOLE_RETENTIVE Avatar

    No, this is creepy, just ask her to get coffee

  3. razzberry_mango Avatar

    How long have you known each other? How close are you already?

    Maybe go easy on the “love” phrases. It’s coming on real strong and is much more aligned with what people say when they are doing marriage proposals, which this is not. Keep the card simple, flowers are a great idea though.

  4. BlissPebble Avatar

    Honestly it’s super sweet, but lowkey sounds like a love confession from a K-drama finale 💀 maybe tone it down just a bit so it feels more like the start of something, not the climax. Handmade flowers = W move though.

  5. Gate2BananaGirl Avatar

    Jesus things have changed. You didn’t already test what does or doesn’t work in your teens?(13-17)?! By 22 you should be a pro big dawg.

    You’re over thinking it. Relax. Ask with your natural flow, and your actual style of talking. What you have written feels like an over the top fusion of note book and chat gpt.

    Relax. Be yourself. You’ll be fine.

  6. pddpro Avatar

    Just ask her out for a coffee or something. That which you’ve written, save it for your marriage proposal (if it progresses so far).