Defamation and Harrassment

Location: New Mexico

Some information: I was “with” a person for maybe two weeks (we were not official. Although he had changed his relationship status and everything on FB, I said I’m not posting my business on Facebook) anyways fast forward, he was weird, had no drive in life, was fine with living off the system, I had a feeling he was mentally ill etc. He did not work. Worked at one job for two weeks then posted that he was considered a flight risk so he can’t and won’t get another job will just play the system. He must get disability. I broke it off.
That was over TWO YEARS ago.

He’s always posted the WILDEST stuff on Facebook. Talking about his grandparents dying and when they do he’d “get everything. The money the cars, the house etc” like just posting stuff I don’t think should be shared on Facebook. Things like this:
“I always get what I want difference between me and you I might as well be God himself whatever I want I get”
“hopefully my Father 1st sergeant airborne ranger commits suicide soon I can’t stand the thought of him being allowed to live for receiving numerous amounts of therapy for watching his squad being blown up in Irag”
“My mother fucked me over Psychology at birth she did numerous drugs while was inside of her destroyed my mental well being long term with mental illnesses so before you decide to smoke that meth or heroin or snort coke while pregnant think of the effects on the child 1 will never forgive my mother she is just a person my father has many problems with his soliders being blown up by IED RPGS in front of him in two pieces in Iraq plus never being a father SO win with Karma against him double the trouble for him with a fucked up mindset haven’t spoke to mom in 18 years”
“After my grandparents are no longer here, I’m selling rhe house and moving so other family can’t take the money from me”
“Suicide would make everything so much better for myself in hell or not after death break my mother’s heart or whole damn family but not with these demons of manic episodes bi polar adhd anxiety and ptsd hell I can’t even smoke weed to fix it to make me
calm down and escape it or I get major panic attacks therapy don’t help councilors don’t help what they say goes through one ear out the other I have trouble listening the adhd in me just overall fucked by life in general with a cactus up my butt”
“As soon as they naturally go my grandparents I’m buying another bike”
“I.think military should get a 30% discount so I can get it. I’m a dependent never served but I deserve the discount for doing nothing”

We hadn’t spoken in a year and all of the sudden I get flowers sent to my house, from him. (Creepy asf. I took it as “ik where you live”) I deleted him from Facebook then I posted a tiktok about not leaving exes alone.
Then he starts posting about me, by my full name. Has included my parents names as well as their workplaces. Saying we are trash and finacially unstable. Saying im a gold digger (all i did was say he should get a job, i never asked him for money or got any momey from him?!) Stating I called adult protective services on him saying he hurt his grandparents, bcuz I was upset that he got a bike and bcuz I was mad that he sent me flowers?! Also said I am a drug addict, a broken human, being w me would be like taking care of a child, that I’m physically and mentally broken. Said i had him banned from a place in my town that I go w my family like I have some kind of pull to do that? Yes it was weird that he drove a few hrs to my town to show up at an event he knew I’d be at but it’s a free country?! I can’t control him or that event!
* while i was in a car accident and had a wild recovery b4 we met, I had to learn how to walk again and everything, 98% of what he posts about me is UNTRUE. All lies. I did not call APS. Idk who did but probably some person who saw him posting his wild shit on Facebook. I’m honestly not surprised!!
Saying “oh gotta find something to bitch about just wait I’ll give you something To bitch about”

He recently split w another ex (he’s had like 4 gfs since we had our lil two week fling), and now he’s turned on her. Post about her by name too. Talks about her having an abortion. Becomes friends w her ex and apparently this ex always drives by her house and point guns at her family (he posted that so idk if true) I figured he would stop posting about me and he hasn’t. It’s ramped up. It’s now been over 2.5 years! It will never stop

What can I do?!
I feel worried about getting police involved as he kind of scares me like he would do something. (A paper does nothing. This kind of person does not care about a paper, jail, etc)
Dudes a psychopath for sure. I’m surprised he hasn’t hurt anyone. He may of. But he has sealed criminal records apparently due to mental illness so idk what he’s done! He has talked about coming to my town and “fucking w me on his bike”

He is mentally ill and the other day posted he was unmedicated now. Off his meds. And what looked like coke on a table. Drinking at 7 am etc (someone who is friends w him on Facebook sends me posts mentioning me, and things like off my meds. I literally have tons of screenshots of his wild ramblings from b4 i blocked him and now i have tons which include my name or others he is harrasing). I’m scared, pissed off, worried… idk what to do but I’m so tired of being talked about esp when he says things that have zero truth to them!!!