UPDATE: Woke up to my boyfriend taking pics of me (M27, F23)

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He came over today and showed me his phone to prove that he didn’t have any pictures of me. He even showed me the trash and there was nothing there either, but there also weren’t any pics of him from that day like he said he had taken and when I asked him about it, he said they weren’t good and he deleted them. I told him that I don’t believe him and that he could have transferred them somewhere else and I know he took pictures. And then I told him what most of you suggested, that if he doesn’t get rid of them, I’ll have the police involved. I thought it would scare him, but he called me ridiculous and a drama queen among other hurtful things. And when I said that I wanted to break up with him, he said that no guy would ever want to deal with a dramatic and delusional girl like me and that I’m lucky he is even willing to forget this whole thing and move on.

I don’t think I’ve ever had a fight that big in my life before and I feel terrible and haven’t stopped crying. I feel like I messed up so bad and what if he’s telling the truth and never took pics of me and I caused all this over nothing? I won’t even go to the police, I mostly said that to scare him into deleting the pictures, but I don’t even know how to feel anymore. This is all wrong and I want to turn back time and do everything differently. I feel stupid 🙁

Comments

  1. Connect_Wrongdoer_81 Avatar

    Aww no it’s not your fault. He made you believe something that isn’t true at all. You did nothing wrong and he’s gaslighting you. I’m so sorry you feel that way. You deserve better. Leave this guy and never ever look back. I’m sorry ❤️

  2. Hunters5387 Avatar

    Will send you a dm