So my bf told me he had a dream about kissing someone else, someone who’s in my class in college. I’ve always had uncomfortable gut feelings about her and when he’s around her. She’s tired talking to him once which made me really uncomfortable. And one time he noticed when she got a haircut and made the remark “Her bf must have broken up with her, so she changed her hair”. I was like why is he so attentive to her. Now he’s admitted that he dreamt about kissing her. So I stayed calm and dug deeper, I asked if it was a random occurrence or if he has feelings. He said “I don’t know”. Later admitting he “had” feelings for her. So I asked if the feelings are still there and again he sounded unsure. And he said he wanted to talk to her last week to “see how she is and stuff”. And that he talked to someone about the dream he had and they told him not to talk to her. And then he proceeded to say “But the chance of us being together are slim because she doesn’t dress decently and she wouldn’t be accepted by his family”
TD;LR: He dreamt about kissing someone else and might still have feelings for her. Admitted he wanted to try talking to her recently to see what she’s like.
Please help me, what do I do? What do I think? On the phone with him rn, I’m shaking but trying to stay calm so I can ask more questions.