Hello. So there is this boy, lets call him Andrew. I like him for almost 2 years now. I didnt try to get with him last year because he had a girlfriend which used him for his money and was a cheater. This year, i didnt try anything cause i got myself into a relationship, but now t ended fast cause I still had feelings for Andrew. One day, me and Andrew were kind of flirting/joking until he said “but you have a boyfriend” and i said “nope, we broke up” and then, me and Andrew started hanging out more, I even slept at his place. There was this party (around 10 ppl) and I remember sitting on the bench by a fireplace and just holding my hand with him while i listened to him talking to other guys. Then i threw up and then he lead me to his room (we left others) and we literally cuddled. Then the next day we woke up and we still cuddled. Then one of his best friends were in the room and we wanted to wake up so we started playing truth or dare and his bestfriend said “kiss her on the cheek” and then i think it changed to “on the lips” and it was just a little “mwah”. Then his friend went to the store and then me and Amdrew cuddled again until I asked “where are we standing” and he said that he is too scared to get into a relationship right now since he needs some thinking and figuring things out (bcuz of his ex which made his have trust issues) and then the same day i asked him “then we are standing nowhere?” And he said “we are standing somewhere” and i said “so i do have a chance” and he said “ofc” then yesterday, i talked about it again but this time i told him that im scared to get my hopes up and he should just reject me, but he said “i cant reject you because i do like you, but i still need time figuring things out” and he totally understood me and i did understand him but im still scared. He is the first crush that i had for this long. Please, what i should do?
Please give me advice im a hopless romantic. What should i do?
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Let him figure things out, he clearly said he likes you. Pushing more can actually drive him away. You are now already further than you have ever been with him. Just be chill and enjoy hanging out with him. Keep in mind that labels rarely mean much in reality, guys that want to cheat, will even if they are labeled as a boyfriend and guys that don’t won’t even if they aren’t labeled anything. So don’t fixate on that, instead spend good time with him, don’t pressure him or chase him, remain available but not pushy. Keep showing consitent interest, and be pleasant to be around. Breathe! You got this!