I (F23) recently found out my now ex boyfriend (M23) uses his burner TikTok account to make hateful/degrading comments on people’s tiktok posts.
He sent me a screen recording of him commenting on a girls post that “she should think before spreading her legs” I don’t know the context of her video because it was not in the recording and the video was deleted. It really doesn’t matter because it’s disgusting for him to comment something like that regardless.
My dilemma is that we went to high school with this girl. We were not close but I feel like she has a right to know that it was him. I just don’t want to be pulled into any drama since I already broke up with him. Any advice?
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Yes. I’d go a step further and send everything you’ve found to his mother.
quit stalking your ex and mind your own business. go play a game or something
He’s out of your life. Don’t give him a reason to get back in.
It’ll end up stirring drama most likely. But if you have evidence of it, he has no grounds to stand on. I’d wanna know the face behind a guy harassing me anonymously because I’ve been a victim to it myself. Which later went on to him making a fake account of me pretending to me. It never stays as commenting, they’ll get bored and either drop it or take it a step further. She’s probably not the only one he does this to, by not saying anything it’s protecting him and pretty much enabling him. I’d say something.
Yes, tell her, and tell her as soon as you discovered it you shoved this guy into the sea.
I wouldn’t get involved in his insanity. If she don’t know then that’s on her.
Yes.
As a dude. I 100% would. 😂 These fuckkn online trolls/incels need to learn a lesson. I’d just be careful yourself, dude obviously has a few loose screws if he thinks of women in that way.
Move on with your life.
If you have the receipts, then yup. Expose him.
Do it. She should know who’s harassing her. If I were her I’d want to know and I bet you would too. Hell I’m sure the few people here telling you not to would also want to know if they were her.
Either choice is valid. It sounds like you want to tell her, but that obviously leaves you open to potential consequences. If you have the energy, I say go for it. But if you think dealing with the fallout would be too much for you, it’s perfectly ok to move on from him completely.
Absolutely you should.
Creeps like this deserve to be called out and shamed
Walk away and block him everywhere.
Can you report the account to TicTok?
Tell her ASAP!
Yes.
Oh please do, absolutely!
If he had a millimetre of class, he would keep it to himself
I get where you’re coming from, but do consider the potential cost to yourself. 1. If you’re creating drama, you’re already in it. 2. Being an AH is not illehal, but doxing is illegal in many jurisdictions and can lead to potential civil and criminal penalties.
Tell her. Hell. Post the pic he sent to put him on blast
I considered telling the boyfriend of my ex who cheated on me about her ways. The issue is I didn’t want to end up on a Springer episode. It’s not worth spending your time on people like my ex-girlfriend. People like her will self implode.
Yep
Absolutely and I cannot stress this enough, you need to warn her even if she doesn’t want to hear it. Women need to look after women. I’m in a whole ass group on Facebook of local woman that post men’s pictures to get the scoop on who he really is. So far we have stopped women from getting with predators, abusers and just generally bad guys. So please let her know.
Tell her anonymously. Screenshot receipts. Send them
Treads, and steps no handrail. $150 and it depends on if you actually want it painted, which I wouldn’t do. I would strip it and do a solid stain.
I mean I don’t know about the other content, but the comment you choose to tell us is actually a fair one.
“she should think before spreading her legs” is a fair thing to say. Nothing worse than seeing girls try to shame a guy for being a deadbeat when they were the ones opening up in the first place. You knew you were having pre-marital unprotected sex and you knew what could happen. IMO that’s on you.
Cyber bullying is illegal some places. I’d suggest sending the evidence to her and non-emergency police.