tl;dr: My long-distance partner said he might end his life. It’s been 5 days with no contact. I’m scared
Hi guys, i’m really worried about the safety of my long distance situationship, he is 25yo and i’m 22yo, he lives in another country and i can’t really reach him. I’m going to explain everything to be clear.
I met him in November 2024, we spoke a lot and have a really strong connection, he always said we had a soulbound but we couldn’t get together (ad a couple) for now because of a choice i made, he said he’ll wait with no problem, i love him and always made it clear to him that i do and that we’ll get together.
Between us was all okay, but he had his family problems, university stress and all the burden of life. Last Sunday we was okay, we talked about watching a movie the day after, and we were happy.
Then Monday came, i was going to txt him goodmorning but i saw a lot of messages of the night before (like at Midnight, i was sleeping), he was talking about being tired and that his dad hated him and now even his mom and Grandma (he was in vacation with them in that day and lives with them) did the same.
Then he said literally “I might kill myself tonight”, i started to panick, and he continued with “even if i don’t i’m not txting” and said for last “Whatever happens i love you”. I tried to call him everywhere, instagram, normal, facetime, discord, snapchat, i did atleast 200 calls and he never answered, i texted him everywhere and same.
Since we were in a strange situationship we had made a deal to never contact the people we know if some of us disappear, for respect and space. I didn’t the morning of Monday because he was in the house with his mom and grandma and i supposed that if he did something, they just would know for that time. I felt so bad and i do now too because i still don’t know anything from him even if i had sings he’s haven’t.
Now it’s been 5 days and i never stopped calling. 2 days ago his mom posted a pic on her ig work page and she would never if her son committed because they really have a strong bond. So i guess he’s just avoiding me, i’m still so worried tho and don’t really know what to do, can you please give me some advice? And if he is okay, why do he needs to keep me in there worried calling and texting like a desperate for days?