So yeah, it’s been a few days since I’ve posted about it, figured I’d give y’all an update. I haven’t spoken to my ex since then, and I’m focused on packing things for college. But, a girl texted me on Instagram and she seems sweet. Clearly I’m no where ready to move on yet – so I thought just being friends would be nice. But the more I analyzed the account and the limited pictures she had, the more I felt like it was my ex catfishing me. I blocked the account because I thought it was fishy that she didn’t wanna video call. I’ve tried to use Pinterest search and Google Lens, but I haven’t found any matching results. If anybody would like to help, I could send the images to you and you can tell me what you think. Thanks!
UPDATE: AITAH for being mad that my gf cheated on me with my brother 2 years ago
r/AITAH
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Go with your gut, seems fishy and if you cut her off it is probably a means to keep an eye on you and try to dig her claws back in.
Good luck navigating this mess with your family, just take a deep breath and do what is right for you and your mental health.
Do yourself a favor and cut your brother off. That’s no brother, that’s just a dude that shares the same parents. Brothers don’t fuck their brothers over like he did.
You don’t need to do a reverse photo lookup. Just meet people in person when you’re ready. Take time to deal with the hurt this has caused. If your parents press the issue, stress that this is not about a girl, it is about his actions that hurt and betrayed your trust and faith in him. It’s not on you to forgive, it’s on him to change and earn back trust. Hope college goes well for you.
Updateme
Your brother is a rat. Cut him out like the parasite he is.
Wishing you the best of luck man
Updateme
Glad you dumped her and gone no contact with your brother. Honestly, you’re off to college where you’ll meet great people and new girls. Glad you found out about this before going to college. Your girlfriend was awful. Being away from your brother will help too. I know your parents don’t want a girl to come between you both but he made a conscious decision to cheat on you so he’s pretty bad. I don’t think your relationship will be great going forward but glad you have a supportive best friend.
Updateme
Tell your parents that their favoritism is showing. This isn’t over a girl. This is the fact that your brother chose to betray you and be a liar and a cheater. Would your dad forgive his brother or would your mom? That’s an outrageous ask right now. They should he telling your brother to leave you alone. I hope you have a therapist.
Updateme
You’re going to be going off to college soon. There will be plenty of time and women to meet. Don’t rush into anything. Concentrate on your education. Stay on your grind. Good luck!
See. I’d have said she is totally better looking than your trashy ex.
Updateme.