20f here, and I seriously cannot wrap my head around the appeal of going to a strip club. ESPECIALLY going to a strip club with your buddies.
“Let’s all go sit next to each other, get really horny, and then drive home.”
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What is the appeal of strip clubs?
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I have been to one, I am not sure. As a guy, look but don’t touch is really a miserable position to put yourself in. I’ll just skip that experience if invited.
As a 27M, I have no idea why people find it appealing. I think theyâre kinda gross.
Get drunk. Look at naked women.
It’s not rocket science.
Seeing naked women.
Youâre a girl.
I like beer.
I like boobs.
I like my mates.
If I combine all 3 together, itâs a fun timeâŚ..
And who says you âget hornyâ going to strip clubs lol.
Maybe if youâre 18, but men can see boobs and not get horny đ
It’s just drinking at a bar but happens to have naked dancing women.
Itâs like a bar with better vibes. Itâs not that deep
Whats appealing is the peeling
I went with a friend in Vegas and was fun partially because it was Vegas.
Went to one here in my town a few times until I ran of out money and stopped going basically.
Not completely out of money but wasted a few hundred over a 8 week period then stopped going. I liked the music, dancers, attention, boobs, etc
We like women. Like see women naked and dancing.
We sound like a bunch of horny monkies? Well, yeah…Â
Its like being at a bar with your buddies only there are naked women to look at too. Usually only happens if we got pretty drunk and wanted the night to keep going. Or there is a few guys that havent been with a woman in a long time that always want to go for obvious reasons. Or special occassions.
When I went, it was because I enjoyed being around naked women.
The appeal is pretty obvious—good looking naked or topless women. That being said, I’ve only been twice, years ago, and no desire to go back. I felt awkward in that environment.
I can’t get really horny by that, so at least for me it’s more like going to watch something interesting
I can think of 2 reasons.
Personally watching guys swinging their cocks around.Â
Try going with your wife or girlfriend. Will lead to the best times of your life.
Itâs basically like a bar but with live entertainment of looking at boobs and asses shake. Depending on the club, you can also pay to actually fuck the strippers or just settle with a private dance. The sex part is for those really underground strip clubs where more illegal shit happens.
Went once for a bachelor party and didn’t really like it. Went a few times with my bisexual (ex)wife and it was…alright. More her thing than mine. Most of what I saw, in my few visits, were either guys doing parties because it’s “tradition” or seems “manly” and single guys who sit by the stage drinking beers and wordlessly tossing in singles to make the strippers crawl over, looking kind of lonely and defeated by life.
I absolutely despise them, as a M.
If youâre confident, self-deprecating about being at a strip club, and not some desperate creep, the convos w/ the strippers ainât half-bad either.
Titties.
Some coworkers and I would go to one, we’d meet up there. Cheep beer, free food, good entertainment.
I don’t get horny seeing naked women though. I was brought up as a nudist so seeing bare flesh doesn’t really do that for me.
I can appreciate how well a dancer looks or how talented she is dancing, doing pole work, etc. We would invite the dancers to our table so they would get a chance to eat and socialize a bit.
I would bring extra money, typically in $2 denomination and would give them to my buddies who would go and tip the women.
One woman thought that the $2 was fake and wouldn’t accept it.
Eventually they started to eliminate the early no cover charge. Then they raised the price of drinks. Then they started to blast the music so there was less socializing with the dancers (and among ourselves). Then they got rid of the free food. That’s when we stopped going.
There is NO SEX in the Champagne Room. NONE.
Some guys like going to watch the new Marvel movie in a theater and get a boner over that.
I prefer drinking beer and getting a boner over watching naked women dance.
To each their own, you know?
Some of those girls put on a legit aerial arts showcase.
Naked girls that put their business in your face does have a certain appeal. And all you have to do is drink liquor and give her a dollar.
strip clubs always seemed like a boring waste of money. if I am going to throw hundreds at a prostitute i may as well just go to the brothel and actually get to fuck them and unload
We men are simple creatures. Don’t think too much into it.
Boobs=Good
LOL.
I don’t get soccer. At its best, its bunch of dudes running around in short pants booting a ball and trying to bang it into a net. If you watch it live, you’ve got to sit for 3 hours. Like???
See how that works?
I’ve never cared for them. Been to several, group setting as you stated. I feel like they’re just a money sink.
As I described it to my now wife, itâs like a sports bar, but instead of a bunch of tvs with games, itâs naked women. You can look at them, but you canât touch (unless you pay a lot).
Personally I always preferred a regular bar where you could actually have a chance with picking someone up, some people like the âthoughtâ of some random stripper thinking they like them I suppose.
Itâs not for you
Titties. Lots of em.
Tiddies.
Beer, buddies, boobies.
Some men love that stuff, for me bro, I’m with you. Bunch of sweaty naked women teasing you like we don’t get teased enough going to the super market đ¤Ł
I’ll pass every time. If someone gonna put on a show for me, much rather it be someone I can touch and love on đ
You ever go to the movies and have a few beers? Or a concert and have some drinks? It’s like that, but with naked women.
Most bars suck because they lack entertainment. I appreciate a good show while having some drinks.
Get lap dances from what men you have little to no chance with outside the club.
Hot women dancing around naked and rubbing up on you. Whatâs hard to understand?
Think of it as the male equivalent of reading a romance novel
I’ve been to clubs that were money pits. The best one I went to was chill the girls didn’t care if you wanted to dance or not and would play pool with you and shoot the shit. That place was great then the new owners took over and it went to shit.
Iâve never been to one, but itâs naked women who act like theyâre attracted to you.
too see different pairs of boobs.
How else am I going to flush my money down a toilet?Â
Pop culture
Itâs one of those things people think are cool because theyâve seen on TV
Naked women. Thatâs the appeal. Itâs also weirdly awkward, but oh well.
My wife has gone with me and itâs fun.
To me, honestly, feeling attractive.
The women there sell you a fantasy. That they think you’re hot and they wanna share their hot body with you.
It’s a lie, but a little self-deception is necessary.
I wasn’t really into it, and my first experience wasn’t worth the cost. But walking in stone sober, an having a 10/10 girl walk up to greet me wearing almost nothing, and start playing with my hair behind my ear. My brain turned off like a switch. She could have convinced me to do anything in that moment.
Men rarely get seduced. We’re always the seducer. Especially single men. So having a woman show that kind of interest even if it’s a lie. I can see the appeal.
For me itâs a train wreck thing. The dirtier and more disgusting the more entertaining. Almost more fun watching the clientele
It’s never the #1 option. Meeting real girls and having a great night is always better. But if the realistic options are either being ignored by girls at a bar or a movie, titties and alcohol wins out.
Tits. That’s it. Not rocket surgery.
Old horny dudes can drink and look at tits. Win win
Its the definition of a party. Alcohol, loud music, naked women and money. Thereâs a time and place but they can be fun if you just have fun with your friends and arenât going with the intent of being a creepy scum bag.
You obviously don’t understand the utter simplicity of men.
Good luck with that. đ
26M, never been to a strip club. But boobs + booty + booze + food. I understand
How young is op
It can be a lot of fun, but it does introduce a weird element of sex when youâre sitting with your boys. Having titties in your face is never a bad thing.
My pov only, and it differs from most – on my best day I’m a 4. Women don’t come up to me in clubs or pubs. If I do approach women the majority are not interested. In a strip club not only do women come up to me and want to spend time with me, but those women are good looking, great looking even. Yes they have an ulterior motive, but that doesn’t ruin it for me.
There are only two places to be with your guys away from your girls. The strip club and ice fishing. Now that the girls are invading the strip joint, there is only ice fishing
Ask other women, they’re the only ones who’ve invited me to strip clubs.
It’s no different than any other bar, it’s just naked ladies instead of TV’s full of sports. I’d rather watch naked ladies than most sports.
no baggage. drunk to turn off brain. boobies
I’ve never had any inkling to want to go to strip clubs. I also find it extremely strange that a bunch of guys would want to go out and get horney together.
That said, I did go to a strip club ONCE. The strippers found out it was my first time ever going and they were just very friendly, gave me hugs, talked to me and smiled a lot. It was extremely friendly and nice vibes. I did not find any part or the experience to be a turn on, though the women were beautiful. I won’t go back again though. I think different strip clubs have very different vibes. The one I went to was pretty low-key.
Worked in one.
Itâs a bar with naked women. Not that hard to understand.
And the girls make more money than you could imagine.
I went to one in Vegas several years ago with my buddy. We did some strong meth first, then drank all night and played slots at the bar watching the girls. When you don’t chase them, after a while they chase you, so they did. I let one play my slot, I kept winning all night for some reason. We were there long after closing, and I walked out with a bucket of quarters right into that blazing Vegas sun, it was already morning. That was the last time I did meth, that shit lasted days, he said it had been washed. Overall, we had a great time though.
I’ve had relations with a stripper so I get the appeal of a private experience but I couldn’t imagine paying for it
>20f here, and I seriously cannot wrap my head around the appeal of going to a strip club
It’s almost like they’re not intended to appeal to you. I’m not sure if you’re aware of this. But not everything in the universe is meant for you.
Happy hour watching stupid men thinking they’re going to get lucky, being stripped of their paycheck
I used to run back and forth between Dayton Ohio and Tuscaloosa Alabama for custody transfers for my oldest kid. After 3 runs in a row where I was stuck overnight on 65 in northern Alabama because of fatality accidents, I changed my start time for the trip to right after work, and started stopping in southern Tennessee at an exit that had a truck stop, econolodge, stand alone subway store, and two tittie bars.
Going to the bars served a couple purposes, first, unwinding from doing that drive as a large man in a little car, getting titties in my face, and growing my destroyed confidence around women in an environment where if I felt uncomfortable I just stop paying and they go away without drama.
Uh excuse me, those are exotic dancers. And these are gentleman’s clubs. Have some respect for the talented performers.
Mostly for the same reasons Iâd go to any other bar with friends.. just something to do and itâs a fun social atmosphere to be in when youâve had some drinks. Thereâs a DJ, thereâs light shows, thereâs pretty girls doing acrobatic stunts with their tits out for my entertainment, whatâs not to like lol.
I wouldnât say I get âsuper hornyâ from going to a strip club tho.. itâs not even that different than what youâd see at the beach or a pool where girls are walking around in their thongs everywhere. Maybe when I was like 18 I did cause it was brand new to me, but now itâs kinda just another place to hang out with the boys on occasion.
Whatâs the point of painting your toenails in winter when theyâre hiding are in sneakers or boots?
Boobies. I’ve never been to one, im not really interested. A few years back, and a few people at work went away (i was sick), i found out that when they got back, they went to the strippers. I’m happily married, so im not sure i would have gone too, I probably would have just played on my phone. My wife has boobs, and I can play with them without a bouncer kicking me out.
To quote Ron Swanson, “i can’t help but think most of the ladies are running a low-grade fever”
Female here. Many years ago my crew of friends had one of two places theyâd hang out at. One of course being a strip club. Weâd all meet up there, have a few drinks, play pool and that was that. None of the guys would even pay attention to the dancers, us ladies did, but not in a weird way.
One of my mates used to go because the drinks were cheap and brought to your table and it was less crowded, he became friends with a few of the girls and they would just sit and chat with him when there wasn’t much going on. He’s moved now but I think he still talks to a few of them
I had a buddy go through a very rough break up about 15 years ago. He wanted to go to a strip club the week after. There were three of us. We were all single at the time. It was just a chance to drink cheap beer, look at boobs, and talk about life.
We went a couple of more times. Weâre all married now. I donât miss strip clubs. So I guess thatâs a happy ending.
Naked women. Thatâs the appeal. And different naked women.
Hot ladies.
Iâve been to one on accident while clubbing with my ex and her friends. It can definitely be a good stimulant but I always felt that you pretty much need baller money to get what youâre expecting.
babes
âWhat is the appeal of beautiful naked women???â
Are you going to get me a beer, strip down to your panties, grind on my lap, and rub your boobs in my face for a little bit of cash? No? They will.
You’re 20, there’s a lot you don’t understand about men yet and that’s ok. But please understand this. Most men love boobs, beer, being grinded on, a gorgeous woman making him feel desired, and walking away feeling like a fucking king. He’ll go home and can rub several out over the next week while thinking about her the entire time.
Or he can try dating apps and regular bars and have average looking girls judge him on his height, weight, how much money he makes, etc. What’s he going to choose?
Beer and boobs.
I think it had more appeal before we could see unlimited tities at home.
Clearly there is appeal or else there would be no strip clubs.
I know it works for some guys but not so much for me. Being a very tactile person, naked people you can’t touch seems silly to me.
Prostitution makes more sense to me than strippers.
The appeal of strip clubs is the hoffy you get in the private dance room. This isn’t something I have done routinely or a great many times, but each time was enjoyable. I used to be the designated driver for a few of my alcoholic friends and it was a part of my payment. Being a DD is boring, so if you want a good one that will hang out, you are going to have to dispense cash and prizes. I’m neither ashamed of my actions, nor am I proud, because I am not a Christian or a Muslim. You can make all the comments you want about me, assume that I haven’t had any hot girlfriends, etc., I don’t care what you think.
Why do men like to see hot women take their clothes off??? Like wtf???Â
I havenât been and donât plan to go to syrup clubs but itâs PRETTY FUCKING CLEAR WHY THEY EXIST. Good lord.Â
Next post âwhy do men play video games? Like pretend to drive a car and shoot pretend guns with your friends? Likeee????????â
As a guy who spent time in several, it’s not normally about getting horny. First, the girls are usually nice so it’s like any bar with lots more waitresses only wearing fewer clothes. Second, some guys enjoy spending time with a girl because their lonely. Lastly its entertaining watching the girls dance. Some are very skilled.
Donât know. Never been and honestly not appealing to me at all.
250,000 years of human male evolution
I’m with you, OP, It’s as exciting as going to a car show. If you can’t climb in and drive, what’s the point?
They have the best steaks! KiddingâŚ.
my wife likes them more than I do. I only go when she wants. She makes friends with all the strippers, itâs usually really fun when that happens.Â
I’m a straight man, and I don’t get it either. It’s like being diabetic and choosing to hang out in a bakery lab.
Before the scandal when Bill Cosby was funny, he described going to a strip club as like being hungry and watching your neighbour BBQ a steak over the fence.
Itâs not appealing to me and Iâve never been to one.
Lots of things happen in VIP
Did you know they have beer and naked women at strip clubs? The women even pretend to like you.
31f. I never understood it either and I hated them. Until I finally went. Itâs the atmosphere. Itâs fun, itâs upbeat. The dancers are entertainers – performers, they know how to give a good time. Yes, thereâs alcohol and boobs which is of course an attraction. But itâs more than that.
Same principle as going to a tool shop. Look at all the nice tools. Go home tool-horny. Play with my own tools.
I think Ron White sums it up best.
As a straight female: drink beer, hang with my friends (male & female), listen to good music, watch some sports on the Telly and see naked women. I also got reduced drinks usually being the only woman patron and am not phased by a beautiful woman naked or not so it was just a bar to me
Some of the strippers are really cool people. Itâs like going to a bar and talking to your friends. But your friends are pretty girls in skimpy outfits.
I went to one in my early twenties because I thought âHey, Iâm single, why not?â
All I got was a smaller bank account and a bad case of blue balls.
Never again.
Never been to one but not that hard to realize the appeal.
Alcohol and naked/semi naked women that can also dance on you.
I agree strange to go and especially with friends but I understand the appeal to some
I went once and it was boring as hell. I donât see the appeal either.
OPs question makes me wanna go to a strip club
itâs honestly just fun. my ex gf used to come with us and she had a ton of fun. itâs a diff type of experience. youâre young but youâre an adult now. at the end of the day itâs innocent. and entertainment. do not get jealous or bent out of shape over it. sure it can be trashy (usually) but normal dudes have fun with their friends then go home.
I love boobies, but strip clubs are no fun. The temptation is there but you canât act on it
Is like going on a date, paid for everything and the girl just has to go.
As a guy I agree. If I’m looking at random naked women I prefer it to be anonymous over the Internet in my own home lol. And that’s free.Â
M-mid 40s. Never been and no idea what the appeal is past many guys being real no-brains that follow
Its like going to a pub. But there are naked women dancing.
Ive been a couple times with dudes and girls and basically had the same experience with both. Its a bar, its chill. Yeah theres naked girls. But tbh, i personally dont like throwing out money just for the tease. But thats just me. To each his own
Letâs put it this way, if the Chippendales or Thunder From Down Under or whatever other similar shows are out there came to town you better damn well bet that a few of your friends are going to see them. What would the appeal be of them? Hunky guys taking their clothes off. Itâs not rocket science.
21 m. Like I kinda get it, I understand the appeal of wanting to see a woman in very little sexy dancing and all, but I’m just not interested, its too sleazy for me, id feel really weird to actually go to one.
If you get a room with a private dancer sheâs probably not going to fuck you, but you are allowed to jerk your friends off in it.
Because naked women are awesome…. that is all
I hate em. I can’t enjoy myself while degrading women.
Going to Gogo bars and strip clubs does actually get dull and boring, and thatâs why Iâve cut it down to six nights a week.
For $20 an attractive naked woman will make you feel like the most important person in the world for two minutes before the song changes. For many men, this is comparable to dying of thirst in the desert and somebody offers you a mini-water bottle and a sun umbrella that you can use till you finish the water for $20. It’s not going to save you, but you’re going to feel a lot better for a short time. You won’t even think about the $20.
Getting horny together with your bros, and pretending the ladies actually like you. Sad.
You may be misunderstanding. Men rarely get âreally hornyâ at a strip club. Most of them are more like dive bars that happen to have boobies.
For me story time, and boobs. I go from time to time, when they are slow, buy drinks for the ladies and we talk and laugh about the stuff that goes on inside the club (I follow a few tick tockers who tell tales from the strip clubs too).
My wife never really believed me at first (but was still ok with me going) until she joined me one time and the bartender handed me my beer and told me I had to stay till Mercedes came in to tell me what happened last week, lol
Uh, boobs? What else? Is that surprising? Next at 10, men like to see women naked.
We’re already horny
To me they are just a really cool bar . Like Duke Nukem type shit
My opinion is that itâs for men that are desensitized to naked women whether that be due to porn addiction, low testosterone, lots of experience, or some combination.
An alternative theory would be that it stems from some sort of exhibitionist impulse in the men. Your reaction to an attractive woman IS sexual, itâs something that makes women that like you horny, to me it feels sexual to express my sexual attraction⌠which is why Iâd never want to do that somewhere where someone knows me.
My horny ass would never want to go to a place like that with friends or where anyone that knows me might see me.
As a gay guy, I’ve gone too many strip clubs with my straight buddies. I understand what they find to be appealing about the situation. A few people have mentioned that the strippers will sit down at the table and talk. I have witnessed this on several occasions. The guys will get pissed because they would end up talking to me more than they would talk to the other guys. One of my friends called me out for being gay and I ended up getting an arm wrapped around me because she felt no pressure at all and she was an extremely down-to-earth woman.
I don’t really care for them. They’re pretty sad and greasy. Would rather drink somewhere without the practice of women grabbing banknotes off people’s faces with their vaginas.
I don’t think people get horny in strip clubs, to be honest it is a bit of a dying industry as it is. I think the charm is to be doing something inappropriate? Never found it that interesting. But then never really found anyone that genuinely likes them either
Im a man and honestly never got it. Seemed like a waste of money to get blue balled.
The really weird thing is those creeps who sit in the bathroom and expect a tip for handing you paper towels
Hot, mostly (if not totally) naked girls dancing around and pretending to be into you. The concept is really simple and you arenât getting it because you are overthinking it
Getting blue balled and walking out with less money than you walked in with.
Strange
Heard the chicken wings there are the best! đ
When you dont receive attention the next easiest way is to pay for it.
Also when you have no real obligation it can be fun. Simultaneously if used for business it can be a tax write off as “entertainment”
Male here. I donât see the fun in it either. I would rather go home and be with my wife. I knew people that would go weekly. I just never understood it. Itâs like buying a nice warm tasty pizza that you canât eat and just throw money at.
I just go there for the free buffet
Boner rub In thin pants
Fantasy. World sucks. Its nice to be the man for the night
As a guy with BDP, I used to go to hook up. Tip. Talk. Have Game. Score. It’s a game not many have the guts or heart to try.
I don’t see what’s the big deal about it. It’s nice to get drunk and look at boobs thought. I wouldn’t pay for it anyways.
If I wanted to get drunk and blue balled I would just take a girl out on a date
I’m not a fan of paying my own money to strippers, but I had a buddy who would take me regularly and give me $500 to spend. Lol. He also gave my buddy $500, and he has way more. (Dude is a multi-millionaire who’s family owns ranches and hotels in Montana)
I had a LOT of fun when I went with them. Lol
He even invited all the strippers to his hot tub party the following night. When they agreed, he realized he had to buy a hot tub and have it installed by the following night. He actually made it happen, too.
There were copious of booze and cocaine. 3 dudes and 8 strippers.
A lot of women donât understand how lonely it can get as a man. Even if itâs fake, at least theyâll feel wanted for a couple hours by beautiful women. The money is negligible if the trade off is to get some feels.
Woman here, a man cannot ever stop wanting to see naked women
None of these men probably have hot wives. I think most men who are in relationships or married want to go and see attractive women. Probably because theirs puts little effort into their physical appearance and no longer get excited by how their partner looks.
When I was young and lonely and a little pathetic. But generally, I don’t get it either.
I’m a 35 year old man and I never understood the appeal.
The only times I went to a strip club was when my buddy from the army got back from basic and wanted to go. He paid for everything and he soent over $300 on lap dances. Like dude could have gotten a decent escort for that.
The other time was because there’s a strip club In SF called Gold Club that has $5 all you can eat buffet. We used to go for lunch at my job.
But to actually go on your own just sounds awful and I feel bad for dudes that need to go just to see tits.