My gf and I have been together for about 9 months now. We’ve both been having a really hard time generally in life and that hasn’t helped but I fear our relationship has become sort of toxic. Neither of wish ill intention or try to do anything bad- but we tend to assume wrong things about each other or cant communicate/get on the same page. I feel like our love languages are also fairly different. We’ve been having a really rough patch lately and neither of us have been talking about what’s happening bc we dont want to hurt each other- but now we just arent talking about whats going on. Ive never been in a relationship thats been as stressful as this.
Tldr; my gf and I have communication issues and tend to have issues seeing eye to eye- making things feel toxic even if it wasn’t intentional and we both mean well. Is this something that could ever be solved?