Okay so buckle up this is going to be long.
So my ex and I broke up around a month ago. But before that we were together (on and off) for six years. I love him a lot, but he is a huge mamas boy. Their relationship is weird. Sorry but for real. I feel like she thinks no one is going to be good enough for her son.
Let me explain more.
So my twin sister passed away from suicide in September. So with that I am going through A LOT.
She started telling me what to do with the urn (suggesting jewelry) and also I have gotten very close to my church family because I feel like I can be myself there and my faith and hope is in God and Jesus. She threw that in my face too. Not going to say what she said cause I’m afraid she’ll find this post lol but basically threw in my face that I had a double life. (Would stay the night at his house) but went to church. And when I quit a job that I do regret she said “great how is she gonna work?” Of course he told me that. Anyway is this salvageable? Should I tell her how I feel? Thank you all for listening.
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