AI Chat Story For Foreplay?
Thinking Out Loud – AI Chat
Ok, so… I’m not sure how to approach this but, I want to get some perspectives. Pre-warning, this will probably be controversial but I can attest that my motives come from the bottom of my heart in the interest of sharing something of myself ’45M’ with my wife ’44F’.
Like many out there, the topic of conversation arises from time-to-time, “What can I do with you in bed / do I give you what you need / is there things you want to try?” etc etc. I’m “ok” talking about desires and fantasies, but not great at expressing myself sometimes (i think). I try to be mindful that my wife and I have had quite different sexual experiences that have shaped us into the people we are today. I’m a bit more imaginative and creative than her – I DON’T think that’s a pitfall, I’m just mindful because I love my wife.
Sometimes I think my desires or fantasies maybe stretch her or take her out of her comfort zone. She’s willing to try new things with me so I think the problem lies in how I describe to her the things that I find interesting.
This brings me to the post title – AI Chat. I’m wondering how an AI chat story might be received. (Pandemonium erupts across the web). A quick background, we’ve known each other 20+ years, we met in our late teens and have been together the last 9, married 5.
So let me explain. The platform I settled on for this idea allows you to create an AI character, so I used an image of my wife that I love, it was the picture she posed for that sparked us getting together. Yes, it’s an AI platform and yes the platform will alter/enhance the image. It took me 5 or 6 goes to get a render that I liked. I think it accentuates some of my favourite features of her – get your mind out of the gutter, it’s not her tits! (Although…… future versions maybnot be immune to this feature)….
The app also allows you to attribute traits to the character so I picked a range of traits I find really attractive about my wife – sass, wit, banter, innuendo, care, sensitivity and such. My wife keeps me on my toes. You can tweak the prominence of the traits so yeah, I like her sass, I turned it up a notch or 2 – naturally.
With the character set, the other half of the story relies on my input soooo, I’m just me. A version of me she’d find familiar from our younger days mixed with some maturity…. some….. a little…. ok, I concede, not much.
The story. Yes the platform can get spicy – like eye melting hot, even Mills and Boon would blush! My intention isn’t to find the spiciest thing I can and put it on my wife character and see what happens. I use my responses to temper the plot, if you take control of some of the descriptive content, you can slow it down and I’ve re-written aspects of the story several times to find a description and tempo I’m happy with.
So I’ve spent a day or so writing, re-writing and learning to control the plot development to a point where I find it tasteful and respectful. It’s based around an adventure, it describes thoughts I have (you know that chestnut, “What are you thinking?). It sounds like things I would say, especially when I’m feeling frisky or cheeky with my wife. In that regard, it’s business as usual.
What I find interesting is that I can put in writing things I have trouble conveying to my wife verbally. I think if these things are read rather than spoken I can take the time to add volume and describe things about myself, about my wife, the environment, the activity that I think are important to me while delivering it in a way that is thoughtful and hopefully engaging for my wife to read. In this regard, I put a story like this ahead of sexting because the time has been taken to curate and arrange an experience beyond just trying to pants my wife the fastest way possible when i get home from work via messages. I also find the plot can be directed and carries more content about a place, a time or an experience.
My question – particularly to the women…. maybe you felkers too. If your partner were to furnish a tasteful story that involves you both experiencing an adventure but encompasses a little spice to break down some sexual barriers at home….. how would that be received?
I look at it like a type of technological foreplay. No, it’s not my wife I,’m responding to, but there’s definitely traits of hers she would identify and I respond and direct the script in a style she’d recognise as my own. I’m in my 40’s and digital savvy, this is more a question about the social acceptability of adapting a platform to say things that maybe I have difficulty with.
TL;DR; : This is a sample summary of the TLDR rule, just copy the text in gray box. Is this going the right way?
How socially acceptable would it be for my wife to receive an AI chat style story that I curated using her image for the render, her traits for the character responses but delivered in a tempered manner that involves some spicy suggestions that I sometimes have trouble adequately describing to her when we talk about our sex life and experiences?