So I [F23] had this old friend [M28] I reconnected with recently via social media. We have so many interests in common and share the same life objectives, but we are really opposite to each other in political views.
We both have ADHD, so we talk a lot, and there’s never really an end to our conversations since we jump from one subject to another.
The last time we saw each other was 5 years ago. We randomly started talking about our sex lives and found out we’re both into BDSM and have the same kink — we’re the perfect match, to be honest.
He made a joke about being sex friends, and I responded honestly… so we planned to have fun together, and we’re waiting to see each other next weekend since he has his family over. We continue to talk on a daily basis, and we’re trying not to give each other too much affection, but I honestly can’t keep him out of my mind. I think about him a lot and like sharing random things from my life with him.
He’s a great man, and honestly, his future wife is very lucky (he’s single and not looking for a relationship). I would love to find my soulmate personally and have thought about downloading a few dating apps, but I can’t do it — I feel like I’d be betraying him and my feelings toward him.
I don’t know what to do anymore. I would love to hang out with him and have fun in the bedroom, but I’m scared I’ll hurt myself if it’s only sex and nothing more. I’ve never had a sex friend before either
How should I approach this situation?
think I have I start to fall in love for my « futur » sexfriend
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