I lost my father 10 years ago. Prior to that situation, I had thought many times how I would react or what I’d do. Well, let me tell you that whatever your mind goes through, you cannot control it.
Grief takes time and st first you are feeling numb. Like something is wrong, a very strange reality, almost like a simulation. When time kicks in and you realize and accept it, then you start dealing. I don’t think there is like a manual of dealing with such a great loss.
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dark humour kept me sane, grief group? No thanks. Making jokes at my moms expense she would’ve loved? Absolutely. <3 all the best to you
I lost my father 10 years ago. Prior to that situation, I had thought many times how I would react or what I’d do. Well, let me tell you that whatever your mind goes through, you cannot control it.
Grief takes time and st first you are feeling numb. Like something is wrong, a very strange reality, almost like a simulation. When time kicks in and you realize and accept it, then you start dealing. I don’t think there is like a manual of dealing with such a great loss.
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Knowing intimately of how imperfect a parent I am, I let them know how much I love them and appreciate everything they did for me.