Hello!
Just a curious woman here looking for some
Insight. My partner (30M) and I had sex a few times the other day within say 6-8 hours (maybe 3-4 times) – my partner did not come each time maybe twice in all, but when he initiated again he struggled to maintain an erection and we just cuddled and called it a day. He said he thinks “we may have gone a little too much today” and I was happy with that.
My question is just what does that actually FEEL like as a man? I was not previously aware one could have “too much” sex, and I was just wondering what it feels like for other people when you’ve been satisfied and want to go again but I guess the flesh isn’t willing? Do you physically feel the excitement even if you’re not hard?
When I asked my partner he said it changes from man to man but he described it as almost thinking about sex when you’re in the middle of a meeting or something like that- it’s on your mind but it’s not all encompassing as it would be if everything “worked”.
Edit: follow up question since I’m getting such helpful responses from everyone – what could I do to make the situation less awkward for my partner? I don’t mind at all but I did feel bad he felt the need to apologize to me – anything I could say that would be more helpful than my usual “don’t be silly nothing to apologize for”
Just interested in any thoughts! Thanks in advance x
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Hello!
Just a curious woman here looking for some
Insight. My partner (30M) and I had sex a few times the other day within say 6-8 hours (maybe 3-4 times) – my partner did not come each time maybe twice in all, but when he initiated again he struggled to maintain an erection and we just cuddled and called it a day. He said he thinks “we may have gone a little too much today” and I was happy with that.
My question is just what does that actually FEEL like as a man? I was not previously aware one could have “too much” sex, and I was just wondering what it feels like for other people when you’ve been satisfied and want to go again but I guess the flesh isn’t willing? Do you physically feel the excitement even if you’re not hard?
When I asked my partner he said it changes from man to man but he described it as almost thinking about sex when you’re in the middle of a meeting or something like that- it’s on your mind but it’s not all encompassing as it would be if everything “worked”.
Just interested in any thoughts! Thanks in advance x
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The thingy doesn’t squirt out anymore white stuff… it’s like it wants to, but it’s outta gas.
But overall, feels calmed and relaxed.
It’s like your brain is ready for Round 4 but your body is just sitting there like a dead phone battery 1% and holding on for dear life.
It’s hard to describe, cock and balls kinda ache a bit like blue balls, lose sensitivity so its harder and harder to cum to the point you know it’s not going to happen.
Coupled with a general feeling of exhaustion.
When i had 5-6x a day last times I was exhausted and just wanted a break. There is no dopamine rush. Brain oberstimulates. My friend down there neaded a break, too. It just feels like exhaustion
Hmm kinda depends on where the desire is coming from, if it’s a significant other, then I def want to physically keep going but my body is spent. If it’s a hookup and we’re both just trying to satisfy the need, then it’s more like seeing food after you just ate.
I think “too much sex” just really comes down to your body being spent, either of the desire or of the ability.
Your dick hurts. Physically. Like it hurts.
Generally yes, you think about it and want it, but it just won’t get up. Can also happen when you’re tired or too intoxicated or a variety of other reasons.
Honestly, it’s something that doesn’t really get talked about but happens to everyone. You want to do it, you think it, but it just won’t get up. When it happens the important thing is to just remember to not take it personally, which it sounds like you didn’t so good on you! It can be incredibly frustrating when it happens.
Some men can be ready to go right after they come, and some have to wait a bit. I’m 37 now and definitely cannot have sex as often as I did when I was 23. Just a part of life.
“The spirit is willing, but the flesh is spongy and bruised.”
For me, there are two parts that affect me:
Physically, the pleasure is turned down from how it would normally feel if i’m mentally into the idea of whatever the fantasy or situation is and I haven’t ejaculated in a while (sometimes the amount of time from last ejaculation doesn’t matter because ill be so into it mentally)
When I’ve had “too much,” I’ve just lost interest, and that results in struggling to maintain an erection. It’s mental at that point. I know that sounds horrible, but the desire is a key factor. I can get aroused all over again if a kink comes up, or if its a certain scenario, or whatever, but if im bored or lose interest during the act, then im definitely not finishing anytime soon, but I might like the way it feels and that’ll keep me hard.
TL;DR
If I like what I see or what im thinking, it’ll make me finish. If not, I won’t, and then it’s “too much” 🤪
My husband apologized for the same reason and I told him that I couldn’t have handled anything more. This seemed to make him happy lol.
You’ll feel actually depleted and I’ve actually had my dick sore but that was after like 3 days of multiple rounds per day
Day after day- sore Pepe
Day of – sweating, maybe a cramp.
I would not know…
It feels like the entire crotch area is sore and bruised…without being visibly “black and blue” bruised. I remember climaxing for the 5th time in a row…the muscles that kick into action were sore and I was out of cum. Instead of an orgasm, it felt like my penis was dry-heaving. I had to tap out after that. The residual soreness lasted a day or two.
I would describe it as think of the joke about guys having two minds, one in their head and the one below.
After doing it once the “mind” below is tired and you’re trying to talk to it(with some sexy talk), but it’s like 50% there mentally. At the fourth round in a short time the “mind” below is very tired basically sleep deprived it just wants to rest it’s say 5% there mentally, but at the same time the mind above in the head is very active because it’s still sexy time. Two separate mindsets essentially.
I’m not sure if there’s anything specific you can say that might not backfire in the future, maybe tell him you’re ready to go again later after he’s relaxed to reassure him. As I would say it depends on the positions and how strenuous the previous rounds were that make it difficult to keep going since you need to relax more after the first one to keep going as it staying hard requires more work.
Feels like channeling all your willpower just to come one more time
Body is slow to do what you want it to do, and the dick is a little sore, and there’s a little bit of a soreness in the undercarriage (probably the prostate)
For me its like eating all your favorite indulgent foods to the point of sleepy satisfaction but if you have another mouthful you might vomit… then she hands you a hotdog and bowl of loaded fries and wants you to get an erection… sorry mamm… it aint gonna happen right now.
When it comes to sex, once a day is a lot of me honestly. I’ve very happy with our average being 3-4 times a week.
The male refractory period can be a bitch. For me it still feels really good, but I know I’m going to get there.
Tanks empty.
My friend made a funny joke about it once to his old lady (allegedly) “My God woman I’m not a yogurt machine”. For me it’s a total lack of sensation. Numbness. Sometimes pain from chaffing. Often humiliation and frustration. Someone else said the mind is willing but the flesh is weak (paraphrase). That but with a fuck ton of guilt associated with it. Especially if it’s a rare occasion to get to have sex or that much sex.
twice a day was my limit, balls get drained after that, on some days maybe 3 times, but that increases the recovery time and I working out a lot and taking a lot supplements. So I was ready to go, but not every single day… maybe like 4 or 5 times a week at most.
aww to be young and in shape again, lol.
But somedays the excitement was through the roof and it was like mind over body.
But at a certain point, we can get a it raw as well.
We do as much as we can… and you can still feel horny even if you can’t get it up after too many rounds.
Me and my ex partner had decided at one point to have longer sessions instead of just going at it and it was much better and I could recover a in those times a lot a better for additional sessions.
So maybe try something like that.
You get a lot more inventive when your sessions are longer… and you find out more things… especially with teasing,
Post nut clarity ? You mean ?
When is ready it feels pleasurable. When it’s not, it’s just like if you’re using your finger. Your finger doesn’t feel pleasure.
Like dry retching – but with your nuts. Speaking of which I find that my balls ache if I get an erection when they’re empty.
….like that house chore you’ve been putting off, but know that it has to get done eventually.
Think about the best looking cheeseburger and fries on a plate in front of you, but you just finished half a pizza.
You know the burger and fries looks great, and you know it tastes great, and that you’re really going to want it later but right now you’re just not hungry.
Have you tried roleplay,using toys or just playing games before letting him put the dick in you directly
I love marathon gals. Things kind of “settle” at a high sort of numb plataeu but very good feeling and very enjoyable. When that occurs, softer head in between more vigorous activities may be more difficult to c*m from in the moment… but PIV etc … no problem. Something about getting into that zone is amazing… the c*ck is able to just stay hard for a long, long time… amazing. I recently had a gal like that in my life… one in a million.
The last time I had too much sex was with my gf in a love hotel in Yokohama Japan. From 6pm-6am the next morning we got up and did the deed randomly throughout the night 9 times total (Thanks Blue Chew). It physically hurts to the point where I don’t want anything touching down there for a long time. Not to mention it’s an actual physical workout of course so you’re just sore all over and want to finally use the bed for what it was actually made for.
The mind is willing but the flesh is spongy and bruised.
Seriously though it is a type of exhausted. The act of sex is especially taxing for men and an orgasm is an intense muscle spasm which means the muscles get tender after 1 or 2 orgasms.
Too much sex feel like not being able to get fully hard, reduced sensitivity and even slight discomfort in the form of friction and tenderness.
One time I fucked this girl for like, not even exaggerating, probably 5 or 6 hours over the course of a night and morning lol, some breaks in between ofc but yea no sleep that night ha.
Just like any other skin, your dick gets chafed eventually if it’s rubbing up against something for that long😬 mine was sore and visibly irritated for like 2-3 days after that ngl lol.
i dont know im scared of women
Besides just the physical exhaustion, and potential chaffing, it manifests in a couple of different ways. There is the “over stimulation” where it just feels too intense, it makes you want to crawl out of our skin, like being tickled but not in a good way. Then there is the just exhausted. You might have a hard time maintaining an erection, or if you do. The mind might be excited, but not as much as it was originally, then the sensation is different. Everything will feel good but it isnt building towards a climax. The whole pelvic floor will be tired and even prone to cramping.
Electrolytes, hydration and maybe some pre – workout if the energy levels are going into the negative zone.
Too much sex becomes boring, it’s not as exciting the feelings not all there body part-wise. Starts to feel like a chore a bit, a happy one at that. Way less excitement both mentally and physically, and it takes ages to reach the desired destination.
Sore muscles, but a muscle that is somewhere behind your balls and impossible to massage.
Painfully aware of both of you having a pubic bone.
Google refractory period
It’s hard to imagine as a man actually losing interest in sex and wanting to do something else instead. Your focus goes first – it gets harder to stay in the moment which also makes it harder to finish, so you just end up pounding away not even sure if you’re still hard or not.
Your balls ache and throb from being emptied several times in a row. The sensation in your dick has faded so it’s hard to even feel anything with it any more.
Even if you do want to continue fucking, the car won’t start anyway so you just have to give up. It’s very much a separation of will and flesh.
And it only gets worse as you get older. I have been geared up for a good session and just not been able to finish at all, and let me tell you as a man there are fewer things more frustrating. It’s like driving 4 hours to see a movie just to find you can’t get into the cinema. You can’t help but feel guilty too like it’s me, not you. Like you’re letting her down somehow or saying she’s not hot enough to make you come which is so laughable untrue.
There’s nothing you can do about it at all. It’s all on us. Either we can get the job done or we can’t and it’s pretty much entirely out of your hands, so to speak.
He’s already feeling bad enough, so just cuddle and forget about it. Hell try again with you next time.
As far as how to make it less awkward… with his equipment being out of commission, if you are comfortable with it have him use a different device to give you one more so that you are fully “satisfied”. That way he doesnt feel the pressure to perform, but was still able to make sure your needs are fully met.
Like a failure, kinda like less of a man. It’s one of the most stereotypical things for guys and i fail at it in addition to making my partner feel bad and less wanted. Seems to be a compounding issue as well as it always adds pressure to perform, but the more pressure it adds the harder it gets to perform.
Usually it’s not down to physical issues aka flesh not being ready, but mental refractory period.
In short, it kinda sucks.
Im sure women cant have too much sex due to thier ability to have multiples but as guys get one nut, then we gotta recharge. We are just built that way. Theres a built in cooldown where we cant cum again even if we want to
“It won’t get hard anymore??”
I once tore the frenulum of my penis foreskin from too much sex in college with my gf. God, I miss those days
Your pee pee feels raw…
5 looks most stylish
Hmmm. Yes.
Let me….. let me……
Yes……yes……
I ….will……….nap.
That is me after going multiple rounds with her. I feel explosions in my head and I just want to sleep on top of her breasts.
In my experience when we start getting to round 3 or 4 it takes me a lot longer to cum (obviously) and I might not even cum the 4th time, there’ll probably pain from all the friction and my balls can get like a tight feeling afterwards. 😅
Also at a certain point it becomes a struggle to maintain a stiffy. 😂
‘eh, sometimes the spirit is willing but the flesh has thrown in the towel. My record was 4 times in one night, but I was also 23/24 at the time.
I mean, TOO MUCH would be having my foreskin swollen.
As for emotionally, I mean, once the post orgasm euphoria has faded, I could ready to go in about 20 minutes again, mentally.
And that’s why God gave men a tongue.
You have to remember the thing that is pumping all that blood to our hard dick is our heart. When it doesn’t happen that’s your bodies way of saying something wrong or you’ve had enough. The stress sex puts on your heart is tremendous especially when you blow a load.
Plus the skin on our dicks is really sensitive. The more friction it gets the more sensitive it becomes to the point of pain.
Our biology wants us to mate as much as possible. I M O. I want to all the time. Luckily I have a wife who enjoys sex as much as me. But sometimes we both have to say ok. Enough.
Best response is to move to light massage / touch. You still feel great about being together and interacting but the expectations match the energy.
It takes the fun out of it and if you’re doing it too much for too long in a short span of time, your dick literally bruises, which isn’t fun at all.
Body feels the same as after multiple long workouts
For the penis…
Imagine taking your eyeball out of its socket then repeatedly ramming it back in and out again. Now imagine that this felt good. Now imagine how that good feeling would eventually fade after doing it multiple times in a day. Not quite sore, but definitely uncomfortable.
Refractory period is a bitch. It differs between men. Your guy could be stressed to. Maybe just ask if there’s anything going on personally? Only way to support him really.
It depends on the man. Some can go 3-4 times a day and others don’t. I don’t know if that’s indicative of sex drive, age or anything else. I would say if you find a way to talk about it and see his perspective (delicately because we can be fragile in this aspect) he may give his insight
I think my record is 3 times in a day? Overall your libido tends to drop after each orgasm until looking at a gorgeous naked women offers the equivalent arousal of grocery shopping. We need to recharge.
There is nothing you can really do except being understanding and you are doing enough I think. Our mind can be willing but our body and penis not being able to follow what our brain want (the feeling is basically exhaustion and fatigue in your body and D itself). Our sexual performance is very dependent on our physical health and fatigue. It’s frustrating for ourselves too when we don’t manage to get a full erection because of it.
You want to go on a roller coaster but the line is too long
Disappointing
Stop trolling for dates.
Happened to me once after 7 rounds, each between 45-1 hr, mi dong litrtally died and wouldnt get up
The others have it pretty effectively laid out, but a pretty unique experience I had may go a little more in depth.
I had only been dating my girlfriend for probably 6 months. We were moving pretty quick and got a place together, and we’re still fucking like rabbits. She was exceptionally more horny than any woman I had been with (10 year sexless relationship before me).
So for fun I got some Viagra, and took 1 60mg pill, and we basically made a full Sunday out of it “breaking in the house”.
Aside from the obvious exhaustion, and feeling like someone took a meat tenderizer to my dick, what was really unexpected was the complete hormone dump.
I started feeling really sluggish and weird that night, but kind of brushed it off. The next day I had this completely oppressive sense of dread and anxiety. Like a true sense of depression, as someone who’s never experienced anything like that. I was shaky and emotional and felt like I was on the verge of tears all day. Made it through work and got home.
My girlfriend asks nervously “are you feeling okay?” And I immediately felt better knowing it wasn’t just me. We had a pretty in depth talk about it and agreed to never do that again.
Too much sex?
No such thing.
You’re asking this question to Redditors?!?!?
May as well ask them what the surface of Mars feels like
You ever go to the gym and push it too hard? Like, if you tried another squat, you’d die? Then you have to penguin waddle on noodle legs to the truck and gasp for air for 20 minutes in the driver seat before pounding water on the way home? You know you’ll be proud to say you pushed it this far later, but right now, everything just hurts and you’re struggling to get home safe? Then when you do you just pass out on the floor, didn’t even make it to the bed, shoes still on, and wake up 2 hours later still dying of thirst, but your legs still don’t work, so you crawl to the fridge to grab a Gatorade, then climb up on the couch and wake up there again the next morning, and that’s when you finally get your shoes off? Basically that.
The mind is willing but the body needs some away time to relax and prepare for the next time. Blood can’t stay there for a very long time without serious medication. To me 3 times is doable and I’ve done it before but 3rd time was a bit rough already. 4th? Hmm. Nope.
Try the moves your man does. It’s a hard workout.
It’s not only a physical thing for me. Sure, I’m not as sensitive anymore and need even more friction och stimulation to “feel” it. But I’m also mentally drained. It doesn’t feel as good after a few times.
Take your finger under water and rub it hard up and down for about 3-4 hours and you’ll get just a small idea of what’s going on with him (just in a more sensitive area)
I mean, it can get boring after a while. You’ll get tired, you don’t have the hormones kicking on full gear to get it on, things begin to get more numb and less sensitive, it just becomes less enjoyable after a while. If you get off each time it becomes more and more difficult to do so the following times without recharging. There just isn’t enough juice to trigger things. At some point it just becomes a chore.
My limit was 7 rounds, after that, even still hard the sensations were completely numb
People aren’t machines. Men are different. Each has different sex drives and periods of recovery.
As he gets older he will be able to go at it multiple times less and less often. Men hit their sexual peak in their 20’s women in their 30’s, typically. It’s no big deal to not be able to go again, at least it shouldn’t be. In my early 20’s I met a friend of a friend halfway between our 2 cities for a long weekend. We had sex about 10 times over that one weekend. It was fucking exhausting. I’m 56 now and more than 3x in a week and I’m like “meh”.
Dick no worky
Sexual compatibility is a big factor in this.
If the sex is effortless and intense, I could ‘Finnish’ and stay hard multiple times in a row. I didn’t know it was possible before that. She wasn’t even really attractive to me but it was the intensity.
The spirit is willing, but the flesh is spongy and bruised.
Honestly how to make him feel better would be just to tell about how much fun you had. How great it was for you.
Guys like to know they did well.
For this to make sense, you’ll need to warm up. Skip rope for like 100 skips. Rest ten minutes. Do five pushups. Rest three minutes.
Now, do as many pushups as you can without slowing down or taking a break. Set that as your number.
Then do a cycle where you wait ten minutes and do that same number of pushups again, over and over. At some point, you’ll not be able to do that many pushups. After an hour or so, you might realize you can’t do any pushups.
Too much sex feels like that, except in your crotch. “The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak.” (Matthew 26:41)
I have no idea, but let me ask my wife😂
I’ll let you know when I find out
For men, Age and health determine it all.
When i was upto my late 20’s there was no such thing as too much. I would get erect as i wanted, literally orgasm as i wanted etc. My only negative was how my skin felt.
Now, i get erect as i want, but cant orgasm as much as i want – which is good for her, as we can last a long time in each session.
Also, the base of the shaft gets sore from rubbing, and the head gets too sensitive.
Also, my refectory time is a bit longer.
Male body can’t handle many rounds dear
Damm. How did you handle so much sex first of all.
There’s two conditions at play here. One is just being tapped out. Tank on empty.
The other is, ejaculating too many times in quick succession can be really painful. Like nuts in a vise. This was more an issue when I was younger and recuperation time was on the order of seconds or a few minutes
I was tired, dick was hurting. I wanted to cuddle and watch a movie but they were just ready for the 5th round of the day
I only miss them during dry spells
I get this wonderful sensation of my balls feeling completely empty
But yeah other than that, ‘the mind is willing but the flesh is spongy and bruised’
Depends on how old you are.
Like a sore muscle, but the muscle is my penis and not an actual muscle
I think it means a guy might just be too tired to keep going. Having sex is a workout, and he may just need a break to go again or not get it up ( overused/ exhausted ). Maybe
When your penis get chaffed from the friction.
When your partner has reached the point where he’s still interested but just can’t get things to cooperate, try slipping a finger gently up his ass and see if that doesn’t get the party started again. A friend told me about this.
When it feels like a chore.
At some point last year, I was seeing 4 girls at the same time and it was exhausting. It was hard to get hard sometimes because I had to reserve a day for each and sometimes some of them would call me the same day. Sometimes I couldn’t have a boner and I said I was just exhausted and didn’t have sex. I won’t do that anymore.
When I’ve overdone it I had pain in my groin. Your body says no but your brain says yes
The best way I can explain the feeling of not being able to cum when you’re hard and horny is like when you want to sneeze so bad, but just can’t. The frustration is similar. At least to me? Lol…
What happens after sex for men is that we temporarily produce a hormone called Prolactin, which usually subsides after about 10 – 20 minutes. Prolactin is a hormone produced by the pituitary gland that plays a role in various bodily functions, including reproductive health. In men, high levels of prolactin can lead to issues such as erectile dysfunction, decreased libido, and enlarged breast tissue. But these are in extreme cases. Women also produce this hormone. With women, it plays a key role in breast development and milk production during and after pregnancy. Elevated levels of prolactin can lead to issues such as irregular menstrual periods, infertility, and milky discharge from the nipples when not breastfeeding.
Some men don’t produce as much Prolactin after sex and can keep going and stay hard after orgasm, and continue and have another ejaculatory orgasm with the same intensity. There are natural supplements that can help lower prolactin production and reduce the time in between, called a refraction period, to be able to achieve another erection and orgasm. In my experience, staying hydrated, exercising, and having good sleep, along with not smoking and eating processed foods and avoiding foods with seed oils, has helped me stay “sexually fit” for my entire sexual life. But it’s a lifestyle more than anything and it’s not for everybody. I love having sex and pleasing my partners, so it’s something that will probably be important to me even in old age, when I get there.
I don’t think 3 – 4 times in a 6 – 8 hour period is below average or anything to be ashamed of TBH. Can he improve? Yes, but if you’re already happy with your current sex life and his sex drive, I don’t see the need to change anything other than if he smokes cigarettes/weed and is sedentary. Those things over time will definitely lower a man’s sex drive, lower his testosterone, raise his estrogen, reduce his cardiovascular capabilities, and reduce his drive in life overall as he ages. If he doesn’t do those things, the simplest way to stay sexually fit is to drink lots of water, eat high cholesterol foods like steak, and eggs as testosterone is produced by cholesterol, the exercise is to make use of the cholesterol to help produce the testosterone and sleep at least a good 8 hours a night as thats when all our hormones are released to repair and recover our bodies. Which is why we wake up hard with morning wood.
I hope this helps.
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For me, having too much sex feels like I’ve been so depleted and can’t perform anymore, or I simply don’t want to have any more sex that day. If you’re still feeling like you want more and he’s had enough, talk with him about ways you could continue stimulating yourself while not putting the pressure on him to perform. Maybe he could please you in other ways, or you could please yourself solo, or beside him.
The important thing is to discuss each of your wants/needs and find a plan that works well for both of you
Once you cum, as a man, the erection doesn’t last long and even if you try to keep going, you won’t feel pleasurable sensations anymore and the penis will become flaccid. I usually have to wait maybe 30 minutes to an hour before trying again. The waiting time may very from man to man. Otherwise what he’s experiencing is normal.
I fall asleep at work. Sex is a lot of exercise.
Who the hell knows ?!
Like your penis is raw, throbbing, empty, but always wants more
For me, it’s not even on my radar. Sex usually holds me off for 24 hours. Within 2 hours of sex, it’s nope for me. Can’t even get my mind into that space. After those 2 hours though, I could go again, but it would solely be for her. I probably wouldn’t be able to cum. On a few rare occasions I have came 3 or 4 times in a day. But yeah, to answer your question, satiation. Like just having had a good meal. I’m no longer hungry. And the thought of getting a cheeseburger does not sound appealing.
Brain wants to have more but then sensitivity is gone.
This is probably very individual. Heard some dudes can never go more than once. Others can go 8+ times or forever if they had nothing else to do. I’m thinking if he eats properly and is well rested he won’t have problems but just a guess
Try and push rope. Same thing.
It feels like when you’ve eaten way too much, and your tummy is hurting, and then somebody puts your absolute favourite desert on the table.
Its just the penis that won’t do the job anymore.
This is when you bring out the toys or find other ways to keep your lady in the game, or preferably BEFORE reaching total exhaustion 😉
Sex is so much more than just intercourse.
You ever tried to climb stairs after doing squats for an hour?
If you do it thrice a day then ig you better forget about next two three days lol! Study say that per hour it make million sperms but it really Doesn’t work that way! Mussel probably get sore and it really hard to get hard ngl.
There’s no such thing as too much sex.
Men, however, have a refractory period, which is literally a “cooldown” on getting/keeping an erection.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Refractory_period_(sex)
While mentally, he may have been aroused, the rest of his body might not have recovered to the point of being able to maintain an erection.
Start adding more kinks whatever your comfortable with a woman turned me out like that when i was younger a olde woman liked sex all the time after awhile i became the Same way and would be more spontaneous and added a whole bunch of kinks i never done turned me out lol
All i need is some water and time….I can max out at 8
What is that???
Girl did you not know once you ejaculate and the men is satisfied it’s hard to keep it up. May be if you wanna keep playing see what turns him on to keep it going.
Also ejaculating too much in a day isn’t pleasurable for a man. It starts to feel almost painful.