So I just found out that a video of me and my guy friend just went around to everyone we know and I have no idea what to do… it happened at a party in a bathroom and someone saw through a window and filmed it and sent it to almost everyone in our school.
I haven’t been able to think about anything since I found out and I just have no idea how to go on after this, I feel embarrassed and humiliated and so does he. We have only spoken about the video and nothing else since it happened and I know he is also going through a tough time but I feel like he is making me deal with it way more, for example, asking me to text people asking them to delete it when I don’t know them but he does.
I think it was a friend of his and a friend of his ex who filmed it. I texted the girl and she said she has deleted it and that she didn’t share it but I don’t really believe it.
I have thought about suing but he asked me to not mention him if I do and that I would have to do it by my self and I truly don’t think I can handle that.
I’m sorry if this is messy, English is not my first language and I am not in a very clear head space but any advice would help honestly… this is such a mess and everyone that went to our school either knows about it or has seen it and someone even sent it to my brother.