I am a 16 y/o boy studying in 11th grade. I am not so popular kid with a 10-15 friends only none of them would come to beat him if i take the boy who peeked. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed. yesterday i was using the washroom with short doors from above and below. some random weirdo was watching me shit from above the washroom doors. that guy was disgusting. then after some time, i came out of the restroom to see he was scared to see me. but in that tense moments my embarrassment took over and i came out of washroom. and that guy shouted from inside the bathroom ‘that guy went to fucking shit’ when i was outside the washroom. i rushed to my class. should i tell to my close friends to help me fight him. he looks more popular than me or should i report to my class teacher?
As a boy i am ashamed and insulted to ask in reddit but chatgpt said it would be fine as u r asking advise.
chatgpt also said to report to a teacher or counselor. but i am not sure what to do.
A boy was peeking from above the washroom’s door. As a BOY what should i do?
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Do not try to fight him yourself. You don’t owe him anything, and confronting him physically could make things worse, especially since he seems more popular
What happened wasn’t your fault. Don’t try to confront him report it to a teacher or school counselor instead. Write down the details to make it easier to explain, and remember: you deserve to feel safe.
People takes shits. That’s life.
it happens ngl that’s why i never shit in school and when i did i gave no fucks ik everyone reacts emotionally different tho and ik kids are way more ruthless now with social media and everything
Take notes of the incident and hand that over to the principal or guidance officer.
Also a description of the person as much as you can give.
Same thing happened to me I’m a girl so idk if this would be different but some weirdo was looking over while I was changing my sanitary pads and she started screaming about it too. Just make it so they’re the weirdo honestly. Like if someone goes up to you or whatever say “yea he was watching me like a creep” or something. Make it obvious he’s the weirdo and was watching. I did that and quickly the girl stopped saying stuff about me
Edit: oh and I also said I was worried if she was “into” me lol I knew she wasn’t but it definitely added embarrassment to her
You are not the one who should be ashamed. He’s a Peeping Tom. It doesn’t matter what you were doing in there. People have an expectation of privacy inside a toilet stall. Bullying is a real thing. Try to have a friend go in with you so you can look out for each other. Good luck!
Report it. This boy clearly has mental health issues. Nobody should be watching anyone in the lavatory.