So for some background context I had sent a message to a
girl on Instagram to she if she was cool with talking and
chatting with her, did this in the middle of a Wednesday last week. As the week goes on I noticed by Monday of this week she finally responded to what I asked which like any guy made me happy cause I could finally have a chance of talk to a girl especially in the year 2025 where doing that is almost non existent. We talked for a few hours and then all of sudden they just vanished without a trace. Throughout most of this week I would notice periodically that there status on Instagram would say that were active and online so I tried to pickup where we left off but only end up getting no response for days but I would notice that they would look at what I sent cause the “just seen” text would move to the most recent thing I sent. Jump to today where the just seen text move again and then she finally answers one of my questions from a day or two before. We start talking again and one of the topics that I had asked about was what were some of her favorite animes that she liked and which one was her all time favorite (a normal ice breaker question). After we both got done say which anime we like and had seen I then proceeded to ask if we could continue talking and getting to know each other like we were doing at the moment. I also apologize for all the messages I had sent during the week (A lot of them were just normal questions or just saying I hoped they had a nice day). After I had sent that message I noticed that I was blocked immediately and I couldn’t see what they posted anymore. At first I thought it was Instagram being hella buggy so went and updated it but after the update I noticed I was still blocked and it’s right now shooting my confidence down by a ton cause I have no idea why or what I was even blocked for and I know I had not done anything wrong nor was my intention to do something wrong. If any has any solutions, advice, or similar stories I would love to hear cause this is just something that got me hella confused and kind of very sad about.
TL;DR; : I basically got block by girl for talking about anime and then asking if we could continue talking to each other
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She likely get too much pressure. I would too the way you describe the situation
‘which like any guy made me happy cause I could finally have a chance of talk to a girl especially in the year 2025 where doing that is almost non existent’
This is a weird thing to say. Half the planet are girls. You think people aren’t talking them?
You sound very young.
You sound as if you’re being obsessive and overbearing, with a side of being needy. Which is not going to win any points with anyone.
It sounds like you were being way too much. You’ve gotta learn how to have a conversation then leave it be. Constantly commenting and swinging messages, then apologizing about sending messages comes across way too needy, and people don’t want to deal with that. It’s a skill, how to have conversations without getting attached and putting too much meaning on each one. Give it time and practice.