Yesterday this random guy texted me on Instagram saying “please respond.” I replied, and he started with “how are you?” then told me I was beautiful. Right after that, he said I smiled at him in class — and that’s when I got confused, because I’ve literally never seen this guy before. I’m not the type to talk to people, especially not guys, and I definitely don’t go around smiling at strangers.
I asked who he was, and he gave me his name and said we’re in the same class. I didn’t recognize the name at all. Then he said he liked me and asked if we could meet tomorrow. I just said “okay” to see what he was getting at, and then suddenly he asked if he could see me “right now.” I was like, “you already know me, I’m the one who doesn’t know you — so why do you need a picture?”
That’s when it got really weird. He begged for a picture — literally begged — for like two hours. From 11 PM to 1 AM, just constantly “please, please.” I told him no, that I don’t send pictures to guys, and it’s a boundary for me. He wouldn’t respect it. I told him clearly, “don’t try me, I won’t send anything.”
Then he suddenly said he knows where I live. And he mentioned my exact location.
I tried not to show I was scared, but I was. I live alone. I’ve never told anyone where I live. Not even the girls in my class know. That freaked me out. I asked what he meant, and he said “just advice from gold.” Then he told me to “be careful tomorrow when you go home.” I was like WHAT does that even mean?? He clearly was threatening..
I left him on seen after that, but the next morning while I was on my way to uni, he started calling me on Instagram. I kept rejecting it. When I finally texted “what?” he asked where I was. I told him “on my way,” and he said “too bad,” like he expected to see me or something. Then he kept texting the most random stuff. First I’m bad, then I’m good, then thank you for answering, then “damn you.” Total psycho energy.
Then he “apologized” and said he wouldn’t bother me again… and kept calling and texting. I told him I was in class and he said he wouldn’t have left class if he knew I was coming?? Like chill dude, I don’t even know you.
He kept sending mixed messages — “you’re cold,” “you’re kind,” “you’ll forget me,” “I’ll disappear.” I said I was confused, and he said “I’ll stop texting so you won’t be confused.” Then he deleted the account which clearly was a fake account.
At first, I thought maybe it was a prank. But I looked into it with a friend — he gave me his real name, and we found him in the class group chat. He’s actually enrolled, just always absent. But I’ve never seen him, ever and surly i never smiled at him.
I don’t know how he knows my name or where I live. That’s what’s been messing with me. I don’t talk to people, I don’t draw attention, and I’m not the kind of person anyone notices.
Anyway, I just needed to vent. I’m still kinda freaked out. And I don’t know what to do
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You should report him