This is a question for men – especially the older, married, divorced, or straight guys out there – I’ve been curious about something and wanted to throw it out here.
Have you ever gone so long without a blowjob or even just a good handjob – maybe because you don’t have a partner, or your partner’s lost interest – that you actually thought about letting another man help you out?
If you did…what happened? Did you go through with it? And if it was just a fantasy, what was it you were needing or craving most in that moment? Was it just release, or was it the attention, the touch, maybe even being wanted in that way?
I know not all straight men would ever consider it, and I respect that completely. But I also know some guys get to a place where the hunger and the curiosity mix together…and it can make you think twice.
I guess I’m asking because I’ve seen and felt how powerful that need can be. There’s something raw about it, something very human.
So – anyone been there and open to sharing?
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Naw man that’s gay
Sounds like what you’re really craving isn’t just the act, but the feeling of being wanted and touched. A lot of men won’t admit it, but that kind of hunger gets heavy when it’s been a long time.
Here’s the thing. If you aren’t at least a little bi, it’s gonna be as hard as tickling yourself into laughter.
If you get a couple drinks in, watch porn and have no eye contact it works, but at that point, you are as well off as taking matters into your own hands. Less shame.
You shouldn’t forget that older women exist too and it’s never too late to hobble after them. Lol
People in relationships can either leave for other women or use their hands.
You are just bi and should consider exploring it if you choose to leave your wife.