A reenactment of a conversion I just had on a dating app

r/

Me: hi 🙂
Him: get help. blocked

Never seen this person irl, never met them. Don’t exactly have anything crazy on my account. I am, however, a larger black goth woman.

What is with this trend of guys swiping right and then when they don’t actually want the interaction, just being an ass? Like, just genuinely rude for no reason except for the crime that someone dared to speak to them.

What happened to not responding? To just unmatching? The reason some (SOME) of these guys are single isn’t for any other reason than just cruelty.

Comments

  1. SilviusSleeps Avatar

    What lunacy. Ignore the maniacs.

  2. Helpful_Hour1984 Avatar

    They do it so they can put you down. They’ve probably been rejected many times (likely for being utter assholes) and they’re looking to feel better by taking petty revenge on any woman they can. Just ignore them, it says nothing about you and everything about them.

  3. dreamsinred Avatar

    Some guys have such difficulty getting matches they just quickly swipe right on everyone, without looking a pics or reading profiles. That dude sounds like an unhinged dick. For what it’s worth “larger black goth woman” sounds sexy, and very intriguing.

  4. Sea_Public_5471 Avatar

    Men are easily slighted by some random thing. When I used dating apps, I had sth like “no elon musk or crypto fans” and several men matched me just to say “what’s wrong with musk fu bitch” 😂

  5. ImpossiblySoggy Avatar

    To make themselves feel better. Tools.

  6. TripleF73 Avatar

    I don’t know.

    Neither do you.

    Maybe they don’t like your goth look or your bisexuality, or even your size (I only mention it because you did, I’m not exactly slim myself).

    The more important point is why do you care what a random dickhead on the internet says?

    Fuck him. Say it with me “Fuck him!!!”

    Stop giving rats ass about what people you don’t know, or care about, think of you. Yes, that includes me. 🤣

    Find someone who likes you for you and then you can work on rubbing off those spikier points off of each other’s personalities, and be happy.

    Then one of you dies and the other one will be glad to have known them and, despite being desperately sad, grateful they spent their most precious asset with you. Time.

    All the best.