A woman I slept with is claiming she is pregnant with my baby with no actual proof. What do I do?

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A woman I slept with is claiming she is pregnant with my baby with no actual proof. What do I do?

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  1. Silent_Trees_831 Avatar

    New phone who dis?

  2. 5ft6manlet Avatar

    Get a pregnancy/DNA test.

  3. jmon3 Avatar

    What proof do you expect her to give? Does she have any reasons to lie?

  4. YahMe2 Avatar

    Take the test.

  5. cinefilestu Avatar

    Get a paternity test

  6. Not_Sure__Camacho Avatar

    ….no actual proof, except the proof you just posted on Reddit…. I just screen shotted your post. Venmo me $400 or I’m sending this image to her…. 🤪

  7. RentonBoi Avatar

    Offer to marry her. Pre nup. DNA test first

  8. RealisticBend5390 Avatar

    Tell her “cool story bro” and get a paternity test done.

  9. Virtual-Squirrel-725 Avatar

    There’s two types of “proof” you’d need.

    Is she actually pregnant with timing that aligns to when you slept with her? This one is pretty easy.

    Are you the father or is someone else?

    If the first is true, then you really need a reason to doubt the second. Why would you think it isn’t yours?

  10. justaheatattack Avatar

    start spending every minute with her.

    control her diet 100%. No drinking, smoking, vaping, processed food. Mothing with more than 3 ingediments. Nothing to drink but plain green tea and prune juice.

    BEDREST! She must stay in bed!

    Natal VITAMINS!!!!

    Lamaz classes, the ONLY thing she can get out of bed for.

    Make lists of baby names.

    She’ll break in a week.

  11. Fearless-Speech-1131 Avatar

    Did you use protection? If not, it’s possible. “What do I do?”…. paternity test duh? Bro, are you even old enough to have sex? Who would be confused about this in 2025?

  12. ElleJaeRey Avatar

    Maybe start wrapping it up, bruh.

    Oh yeah, and you have to wait until the child is born to get a paternity test.

  13. RyanGetty1 Avatar

    Don’t keep having sex with her without a condom. If she’s pregnant and wants to keep it. Stop having sex with her. She might try to trick you into thinking that she’s already pregnant with your child, so what’s the point of wearing a condom. She wants you RAW…. Don’t fall for it. If she wasn’t really pregnant the first time, rest assure that she will be for the second, third, fourth… well… you get the drift.

  14. H0tSoup1 Avatar

    Obtain definitive proof that she is pregnant, first, if possible. If she is pregnant, contact a lawyer. If she is not pregnant, make sure she didn’t miscarry before you accuse her of anything. If you can’t get proof, your best bet is to retain legal representation in case any paperwork with your name starts showing up.

  15. PositiveLibrary7032 Avatar

    If she sends you a scan reverse google image check it. Also a paternity test.

  16. Lord_darkwind Avatar

    I don’t believe you

  17. chillvegan420 Avatar

    Bro has never heard of a paternity test and ran to Reddit first

  18. bellarinebi Avatar

    She needs to prove it’s yours. It’s her claim that you are the father by her word only. It’s up to her to pay for a DNA paternity test. It shouldn’t be left to the other party to prove her assumptions. I would seek legal advice first though

  19. alchemistanonymous Avatar

    Nothing you can do except wait for it to be born and ask for a paternity test to prove it’s yours or not. Use a condom, be responsible for yourself if you don’t want kids. 

  20. ExperimentalFruit Avatar

    Wear a condom next time

  21. ckn Avatar

    Ask for a prenatal paternity test. They exist, they’re non-invasive, and they’ll shut down the guessing game real fast.

    If she dodges that and starts talking about vibes or something that the universe told her, you might be dealing with one of those toothless crackhead scams that ends with you on Maury reruns in perpetuity.

    Get receipts or tell her to get out.

  22. scaredlilbeta Avatar