I’m super sacred but I’m ready, I just need any advice from any girls on what to do to prep, or any advice from guys in order to help my partner as I don’t want him to feel scared in anyway. Thanks
About to lose virginity, any advice?
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I’m super sacred but I’m ready, I just need any advice from any girls on what to do to prep, or any advice from guys in order to help my partner as I don’t want him to feel scared in anyway. Thanks
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“I think I’m ready.”
Is that the absolute, unvarnished truth?
Please think about it and be honest.
When I lost my virginity, I bled for a few days afterwards quite heavily – like a period. This might not be the norm but don’t worry if you bled more than you are expecting.
Do aftercare afterwards, cuddle etc. this is so very important. You’ll be fine xx
He needs to know that you’re a virgin, foreplay is really important, he needs to take his time with you before the main event, now when you’re ready to the main event it needs to be slow, if you guys are in love and communication is good then I don’t think there’s anything to worry about
Imp: if you haven’t don’t anything before together then I wouldn’t recommend you to jump into loosing your virginity at all, there’s a lot of other things other than penetration that are pleasurable
Tell him that he needs to take care of you afterward, cuddle etc. And remember to be safe!😉
If you’re not actually ready don’t push yourself but if you are some girls bleed the first time and others don’t, just make sure you’re clean down there, don’t forget to pee immediately after otherwise you’ll get a UTI, don’t force yourself to do anything you don’t want and after care cuddling/talking etc that’s very important overall you’ll be good girlie
Is he a virgin as well? This is somewhat important? Have you done other sexual acts, oral, fingers, etc, are you familiar with each other in the nude? Curious what your starting point is as it matters to how to offer advice.
Tell him you’re a virgin and he needs to take care of you, and you want him to kiss and cuddle you afterwards.
Enjoy the experience.
From my experience you will know when the right time is, don’t necessarily plan it just do it on the day that it feels right. If your not 100% then I’d wait till you are. My partner waited about 6 months or so till we had sex 😊