I am an age 31 F located in Denver and Ive done friendship apps, Facebook groups, meetups for events, and even hiking events. I still can’t find solid female friends. I spoke with my therapist about this and she recommended I reach out to people more. I’ll admit I don’t text people enough (more than 2-3 weeks) but I do plan brunch/lunch, or fun activities to catch up with the current 2 friends I have. I worry my expectations for friends in the adult world is too high. I just want female friends who check up on me at least monthly and ask me to go somewhere maybe every 3 months. Is this too much for an adult friendship?
TLDR: I’m worried my friendship expectations for adult friendships are too high and I cannot make new friends because I do not text enough.