My (28 F) boyfriend (27M) and his mom are incredibly close. Mom is a milf, but a loon. He told me something that struck me as weird. Please: I need an outside perspective. What is going on here:
They shared information about their sex life in at least one conversation and he told her “mom don’t be afraid to ask for what you want” (i.e. in bed…from his stepdad of 5 years…)
On another occasion, he told me that back when he was 19, he dated a beautiful girl and that when they would have sex up in his bedroom at home, his mom would go into her bedroom, to have very loud sex with his stepdad, which he believes was to “compete” (never elaborated what this means)
She has a framed shirtless photo of him in her house.
Can someone please explain is this just what close mother son relationships are??!
She has come over to clean the house while we’re working (she has a key…) And put multiple frames of her, moving our photos to the side. She also threw my period medicine under the sink. I think she’s a clown, but I just need to be clear before I dump him.
What is the psychology/ nature between them?
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Run now, he is married to his mum and just using you for sex