advice on how to feel or handle my feels lol

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i just found out that my bd has been having the woman he cheated on me with living with him without me ever meeting her. she has been spending time and has met my son without my knowledge when we had an agreement to have the significant other meet the ex and child at the same time no matter what. i feel extremely disrespected and overall kinda speechless on the crazy amount of disrespect ive recieved from him in many ways. how would you handle this situation? not talking about custody or anything like that bc we have that handled.

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    Backup of the post’s body: i just found out that my bd has been having the woman he cheated on me with living with him without me ever meeting her. she has been spending time and has met my son without my knowledge when we had an agreement to have the significant other meet the ex and child at the same time no matter what. i feel extremely disrespected and overall kinda speechless on the crazy amount of disrespect ive recieved from him in many ways. how would you handle this situation? not talking about custody or anything like that bc we have that handled.

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  3. ZoeeKennedy Avatar

    Your feelings are completely valid this is a deep betrayal take time to proces and when you are ready stand firm in your boundaries you deserve respect

  4. MerlinSmurf Avatar

    This is a no-brainer. Your bf is untrustworthy. I hope he is a better father than he is a partner.