I got a little more drunk than I intended at a family BBQ last night, and I remember snapping the guy I’ve been seeing loads. And I remember saying LOADS. Do I remember much that I said? No.
It’s the classic case of drank too much and said some things, it’s nothing insanely serious and he was responding fine, I remember a few of our convos and it seemed pretty chill. Thing is, we haven’t been talking long and I don’t know if I was TOO myself iykwim? I can be very forward when drunk and idk if it was too early on to be that open to the guy. I don’t think he knew I was drinking and I don’t know if he thinks I’m weird for acting that way out of nowhere.
Should I apologise for the way I was acting incase he thinks I was being weird for no reason? Like, casually say “hey my bad for saying things yesterday, had too much to drink” or should I just leave it as is and hope for the best?
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Don’t apologise. You’re allowed to be yourself, and if being yourself is too much for him it’s better to find out now.
Snapping? In what sense?
I think it would put a spotlight on your drunk texts if you bring it up. Don’t mention it at all!
If he responded fine, you’re good. A quick “sorry if I was a bit much, had a few drinks” is enough. Clears the air, no drama. Don’t overthink it.