AIO for thinking my bfs messages came from a place of control rather than concern (NOT original OP, cross post)

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AIO for thinking my bfs messages came from a place of control rather than concern (NOT original OP, cross post)

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  1. CherCee Avatar

    You’re not overreacting.

  2. Gypsydoodle17 Avatar

    Run.. he is trying to control what you wear how you present yourself in public… that is abuse… It will only get worse

  3. steelemyheart2011 Avatar

    Not over reacting it’s absolutely about control

  4. Monarch_Butterfrog Avatar

    💯 he wants to control you. If he was caring. He could express that he worries when you bike and ask if you are protected enough.

    I’m just assuming you had the bike before the man, right?

    Cause if so. He definitely knew you had it and wants to make you small and give up something you love for him. Which is very much. Controlling.

  5. Ivye-Jade Avatar

    He’s insecure and controlling. Better off without him.

  6. SeykaDagmar Avatar

    Ew. I can smell his inferiority complex over here.

    Don’t tell me men don’t feel like chick magnets when they’re riding their bikes.
    Who cares if something you enjoy also makes you feel sexy, it’s not a crime.

  7. JenyRae1984 Avatar

    Good for you sticking up for yourself! Perfect responses!!! But yea he’s insecure and controlling!

  8. AsparagusOverall8454 Avatar

    You would be absolutely right.

  9. CumishaJones Avatar

    Yes because safety gear is so sexual , oohhh yeah full face helmet 😂 the guys a douche

  10. Alone_Break7627 Avatar

    my husband would be SO STOKED if I rode a motorcycle with him. Instead, I trip on air and would die in 30 seconds.

  11. babyduck21 Avatar

    You are an absolute QUEEN for these responses. Hell to the yes

  12. EchoMountain158 Avatar

    100% control. People could think about you in sweats and a dirty T-shirt. He needs to grow up or fuck off.

  13. RowSignificant5045 Avatar

    I was literally about to send this too!

  14. WobblySlug Avatar

    His comfort lol. Sounds like a him problem.

    Imagine going swimming, wearing a dress, doing literally anything.

  15. DoctorMoebius Avatar

    Bravo, 10 of 10 responses by OP!!!!

    Never, ever, “shrink yourself for someone else’s insecurities”. You keep riding, girl.

  16. Spare-Article-396 Avatar

    As a woman old enough to be your mother, I am so fricken proud of you.

    chef’s kiss

    Perfection!

  17. Vicious1714 Avatar

    Dudes bad news….i agree with insecure and controlling

  18. doomedfollicle Avatar

    Bro is delusional. Total lame-o titty baby wimp. Not boyfriend material imo.

  19. Bayou-Maharaja Avatar

    What a fucking loser. This is embarrassing to read

  20. Interesting_Blood320 Avatar

    Don’t walk, run!! This kind of shit will only get worse if you let this go on. Break it off, because like you said, he is insecure and is trying to take something from you you love just to let him feel good. This is a insecure little boy , not a man to build a life with. So run!! Or drive 🤣

  21. Silent-Criticism7534 Avatar

    Boyfriend is an insecure fuckhead. Run now, before it becomes even more of an issue.

  22. SawtoofShark Avatar

    Wowwwww, he’s literally bullying you for wearing clothes and taking pictures in public. Yeah, get out. He’s the kind that will isolate you so he controls your entire world.